CurseBunny

joined 1 year ago

I don't believe it's so much about the correction itself as it is about ignoring what the person said and only piping up to correct. Imagine we are having a conversation and you spend 3 minutes telling me about how you struggled to get the lug nuts off your tire this morning while changing it and when you finished, all I had to offer you is "they're on the rim, not the tire" and nothing more. It can come off as a bit rude.

[–] CurseBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Presumably referring to eggnog, Calpico (a japanese milky beverage), and Horchata (a mexican blend of rice, milk, vanilla, and cinnamon) being individually combined with Pepsi

[–] CurseBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 year ago

I've been really longing to feel some sense of community and meet new people for a while now, but when I think about joining a group/club it just feels impossible. I'd really love to make new friends but it would be great to be able to skip the "talking to a group of people I don't know" part.

[–] CurseBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The side of intolerance will never extend you the courtesy of peaceful co-existence that you try to extend to them. If you give them a hand they'll take an arm. Give them the chance to talk and they'll take away your right to speak. You fundamentally can't make peace with someone who wants nothing more than to see you disappear.

[–] CurseBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago

Hey, that's fair. I hadn't considered that in casting this net I could be catching people who are quite anxious and speaking to fill the silence. Admittedly I am saying this with a handful of specific people I've met in mind, and in their particular cases it was more reflective of their narcissistic tendencies than any sort of anxious response, but I realize in retrospect that it can also be coping behavior. I hope I didn't offend either way, and I'll keep this in mind in the future.

I do think it's really okay to speak up there's something you want to say! I really must stress that I only think its problematic if no one else can actually converse because of them and it's a chronic thing.

[–] CurseBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 42 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

Cutting others off excessively. It's normal when you're in a large enough group for there to be some overlap, but some people do it constantly and are only interested in hearing themselves speak. Makes being around them impossible since I often have trouble speaking up anyways.

Edit: I took instantly to mean on first meeting them, so I may have interpreted the question wrong lol

Edit2: I also should've been a bit more careful with my words, as this kind of behavior can be attributed to an anxiety response and isn't always done out of apathy. I really apologize if I offended anyone by overgeneralizing.

Bring out your seed...

[–] CurseBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, businesses that use Linux generally hire people who know how to use Linux. I don't think you actually know what you're arguing about anymore, but you can do it by yourself. Hope things get better for you in the future.

[–] CurseBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

This is just nonsense. Linux servers are all over the place. Google has its own internal distribution of Ubuntu! I feel like you're not arguing in good faith, here.

Edit: For reading at your leisure: A list of organizations that have adopted Linux for regular use

Four years ago this wasn't even true on something quite minimalist like Arch. You installed a desktop environment and some generic drivers for stuff like audio and you had a working PC. If this was truly your experience I'm very curious about what your particular issues were.

[–] CurseBunny@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not here to disagree, just here to advocate for Krita over Gimp. I found it much more pleasant to use for digital art

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