Balios

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[–] Balios@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Hehe, just like with the cannibal of Rothenburg.

[–] Balios@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

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[–] Balios@kbin.social 22 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Nah.
Firstly, you no longer can buy coins and awards. Three days ago they posted this:

Starting today, you will no longer be able to purchase new coins, but all awards and existing coins will continue to be available until September 12, 2023.

So currently they can not make any quick bugs with coins and awards as they no longer are buy-able.
Additionally, since all coins/awards expire on that date, there is zero reason to get more. Right now you want to get rid of what you have, not stock up just so Reddit can delete your inventory of coins.

This would be different if they announced some beneficial exchange rate for real money or their new system or kept coins you own available indefinitely (or at least way longer), which indeed would trigger some people to stock up "just in case I want to award someone later on".

This is a clean cut, meant to renew the system by first tearing down the old one completely, without leaving anything in place, and then introducing something entirely new. I don't necessarily agree with their communication and deadlines but I don't think there is anything foul at work here. They just want a new system and follow their current trend of rushing everything.

[–] Balios@kbin.social 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I just don’t understand why I have to say β€œhey, would you mind not letting the dogs tangle? thank you:)” in some high pitched voice when I could just say, β€œcan you not let the dogs tangle?” in a tone that conveys I’m serious. it’s so much easier when intentions are simply stated.

I think part of your problem actually starts even earlier, because it exists in both examples. You use you-statements. Neurotypicals hate these and feel directly accused of something. So softening the you-statement helps.

If it makes sense to you and comes more easy you can try something that is also taught to neurotypicals who look into learning about communication: Avoid you-statements and instead use I-statements that are about you and the situation, not them and the situation.
There are a lot of resources about that on the internet (because as said, even the Neurotypicals need to learn about that) but here's one example where they explain the difference and how it's perceived

But here you'd instead say "I don't like when the dogs tangle". Neurotypicals will see a problem that needs to be solved and go like "hey, I can help" instead of becoming defensive about the perceived accusation that they did something wrong. It's not a guarantee that it works but studies show a lot higher acceptance for I-statements.

[–] Balios@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Sega does what Crypdon't?

[–] Balios@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Me: "People of Reddit, what feeling is more satisfying than sex?"
Redditors:

[–] Balios@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Nail me!

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[–] Balios@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

Got places to go, gotta follow my rainbow

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