The US can not be trusted with its own military.
I'm not a fan of U.S. foreign policy. But as far as the military chain of command, it's specifically designed to have it's own checks and balances against abuse of power. Precisely what Trump is wanting to topple. So if the choice is an orange toddler or a robust and effective circle of generals, I'll go with the generals thanks.
I don't disagree, but that's not really my point.
What you're arguing is basically akin to people who sat out the vote because "Genocide Joe". Which is what gave America Trump 2.0 in the first place. Yes, the established Military Complex is flawed and in some cases downright evil. But the response to that isn't "fuck it, let's burn it down and give a fucking toddler direct control of it."
You don't fix things by picking the worse option on purpose. That's utter lunacy.