This is too much of a minefield to wade into, but I suppose if you're on blahaj and disagree, transfer your subs to a new instance that federates with both, and you won't notice the difference from before.
this post was submitted on 24 Jul 2023
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There needs to be an instance that fits everyone, and if lemmy.blahaz.zone wants to be the morality-police instance for their users, and their users like that, then more power to them.
There can be no "wrong" between two or more consenting adults.
My ex-wife is a clinical sexologist and I myself almost got my doctorate in the field too
Taking the classes and reading the books really opened up my eyes how much happier people are when they throw convention to the wind and just be themselves with other like-minded people.
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Honestly feels like there are just a ton of anti-lgbt people jumping at the chance to hate on ada, this is quite a non-issue.
If people want to see and interact with porn then they can simply make an account on a porn server, that's a good idea even regardless of all this.
I don't understand the insistence that porn instances have to be federated with everyone else, it's equally as strange as pornhub having a "share to facebook" button.
The blahaj admin fucked up, and rather than admitting they fucked up, they decided to drag the issue into the public sphere and infer the other instance supports CSAM. And don't give me any bullshit about how that's not really what they are doing, because that's exactly how they worded their post. I'm guessing they did it because they wanted to create drama and play the victim, but whatever the reason, everyone else has every right to criticize them for their actions. What they did was pretty fucking shitty, and they should be ashamed of themselves.
I feel the need to point out, there is porn on both instances. Just more on lemmynsfw.
When using reddit we can access everything under one account. That is the point. If each instance need each account then there is no use. I should be able to open one account and access everything. If people are segregated into multiple instance and no connection between them then there is no use. Yeah if they are allowing posting of csam content etc then fine defederation is necessary.
I should be able to open one account and access everything.
This seems like a misunderstanding of how Fediverse works. It's about voluntary association between instance owners. If you don't like the decisions made by your instance owner, then the point of Fediverse is that you can either find an instance that thinks like you do, or make your own. It's not about forcing owners to associate with other instances they dislike, even if you disagree with the reasoning.
There's a bit of downside in that Lemmy doesn't let you migrate accounts at this time, but it's basically brand-new open source software. Whether you meant to or not, you signed up to be a user for an incomplete experience.
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The core premise of federation is that people have the right of association. It’s people core right to say ‘no we don’t want to federate with you’. The microblogging side of fedi has figured this mostly out at this point. Not sure why this is a big deal