Super fake people who are clearly pushing an alterior motive. I think of my last interaction with a Discord mod who was overly politie and typing as if they knew a third party was watching. It's just not normal human to human conversation.
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I agree that feeling manipulated is frustrating and sad. At the same time now I'm scared you wouldn't like texting with me⦠I take my time sometimes to write something out, and then I think about what I'd like to say and realize what I wrote doesn't reflect that, so I type it out again. I want to be clear and use the right words, you know?
That's not being fake at all lol. It's about speaking to a person to connect to them, rather then speaking to a person for the purpose of putting on an act.
Behqving like my dad: whiny, removed, gaslighting Son of a moron who blames the person if their process doesn't work.
"What you want is..."
I want people to stop telling me what I want.
Entitlement. Lack of situational awareness. Selfish or self-involved. Litterer.
If they treat animals bad. Stray animals or their own.
If they apologize but they're too quick to justify themselves or they turn it on you instead.
If they treat retail workers/staff badly. Or diminish their job in any way.
If they make alot of crude jokes/comments about women. They're just misogynistic