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[–] Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago

The GOP wants to allow rapists to choose the mother of his children

[–] Reptorian@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Even though my mother is part of the Democratic Party, she told me to vote no to limiting government interference for abortion. Guess what, I will vote yes to it.

[–] WoahWoah@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Wow, you're not going to listen to your mother?? 😬

[–] Reptorian@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Well, I want less government intrusion for abortion. So, I voted yes to have abortion more accessible. Healthcare shouldn't be controversial.

[–] PlantDadManGuy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Good on ya mate

[–] SeattleRain@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

This is so good for capitalism.

[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 45 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

How fucked. She told the army and they pretty much threatened to demote her. And when she told the rapist, he ghosted her. No one supported her in getting the abortion, and the adopted parents back out when she was six month. She wanted to work in the space program. That's so terribly tragic.

[–] PlantDadManGuy@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

If the rape didn't ruin her life and steal her autonomy, the FORCED MOTHERHOOD absolutely did.

[–] kandoh@reddthat.com 14 points 1 week ago

Imagine being in your golden years and getting a phone call asking if you'd like to see your rape baby grandchild

[–] Maggoty@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

That sounds about right unfortunately. They'd put her on light duty and send her for mental counseling. That would then be used to prevent promotions or re-enlistment.

[–] SassyRamen@lemmy.world 111 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

What a joyful life for that kid. It's not his fault, but he'll be hated by his mom his entire life for it.

Edit: I am pro choice and fucking hate what our country is being turned into by the right.

[–] AWistfulNihilist@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Kid is gonna read that article. Maybe now, maybe one day. Imagine reading an article about how your mom wishes desperately with all her heart that she didn't have you.

She loves you despite what you are, not because of it. Fuck me.

Yeah I want to admit up top that I have no fucking idea what the right approach is here.

I'm a new parent, but thankfully my kids aren't old enough for me to encounter complicated questions yet.

This might change, but right now my plan is to do my best to avoid cover stories for things. If you're open (as much as is appropriate) and honest (in the context of the delicate situation), that might be better than trying to hide this aspect of the kids ancestry.

As an adult I know that it's possible to simultaneously live a child while acknowledging that an abortion would have been a better option.

I honestly don't know whether a child can understand that.

The thing is, it's not just a conversation with a child. It's lived experience. I'm absolutely confident that my children (we have twins) will know that I love them because of my actions - the time I spend with them every day.

I'm thankful I don't have to navigate this. I would talk to a child psychologist or something to figure out the best way forward. I suspect that will always be communication, but an expert could help you know the best timing, things to watch out for, et cetera.

He'll probably starve to death too at the rate we're going.

[–] VubDapple@lemmy.world 70 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Not hated exactly, but there will be knowledge that they weren't wanted. They will blame themselves as kids tend to do. Trauma ensues. What a fucking unnecessary tragedy.

[–] DarkThoughts@fedia.io 1 points 1 week ago

I'm contemplating about whether parents even should tell them or not? On one hand, the kid kind of has the right to know, on the other hand they'd likely hate themselves for it. Personally I think it's better to end pregnancies that come from rape for those reasons. Even if the parents attempt to look past it, subconsciously they will always be reminded of the rapist when they see the kid and they will act accordingly, whether they want to or not.

[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 36 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Nah hated is entirely possible. Depends entirely on the mother and if she has the emotional and rational capacity to separate it. If her brain makes her think of her rapist every time she looks at her child, it will be impossible to love it.

I hope she can love it but i wouldnt blame her if she cant.

[–] MyOpinion@lemm.ee 78 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I bet he even gets visitation rights. The GOP creates such a beautiful world.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 28 points 2 weeks ago

Ugh. Stop.

I mean....you're not wrong factually, but all of this is wrong, and I'd just love to stop living now.

[–] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 61 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

This is what Republicans want. They cannot imagine passing on their genes any other way.

[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I read an article a few days ago that a Republican state argued that they needed to codify abortion bans because their teen pregnancy numbers were dropping.

[–] cowpattycrusader@thelemmy.club 12 points 1 week ago

This is absolutely what they want. Force the women into bad positions so they can be more exploitable. Force the children in these situations into bad positions so they can also be more exploitable.

Although, I am sure they prefer the good ol' days when they could just rape their slaves.

[–] randon31415@lemmy.world -3 points 1 week ago

There was a study, which I cannot find anymore despite searching for it on google scholar for a half hour, where they looked at a group of people's sexual encounters over a month.

If you expanded 'rape' to be under the age of consent, one or more people involve had alcohol, one or more people were clinically 'drowsy' or asleep, verbal consent never was obtained, or type of sex act or use/none use of condom were not agreed upon by both parties; the researchers found roughly 50% of all sexual encounters in this group could be classified as rape in one way or another.

Makes you wonder what percent of the population is conceived via something that is technically rape.

[–] scala@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

and incest!

[–] chalupapocalypse@lemmy.world 37 points 2 weeks ago

Death is too little of a punishment for the people enabling this

[–] BlessedDog@lemmy.world 27 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Cruel

I hope your country wakes up and votes for good

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[–] vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Ya know I have nothing but respect for this woman takes a lot of willpower, probably would've killed the kid myself. But this is why im a guy and single, dont want to risk such instincts making me a monster. That and I aint got a uterus.

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