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The boy, who cannot be named for legal reasons because of his age, was previously due to be sentenced on 2 September - but proceedings were adjourned when the court learned the boy's mother was on holiday in Ibiza.

The boy was accompanied by his uncle instead, but District Judge Joanne Hirst told Manchester Magistrates' Court she was "frankly astonished" and ordered a parental summons for the mother to explain herself.

The 30-year-old single mother, who also cannot be named because that would identify her son, appeared at the court on Wednesday alongside him and told the judge the Spanish island break had cost £1,200.

She had decided to fly abroad for the five-day trip the day before her son was due to appear in court last week to be sentenced after admitting two counts of violent disorder.

Explaining her absence, she told the judge she spoke with her solicitor and the Youth Justice team: "It was not put to me how much I needed to be there. Each one said, 'Is there an appropriate adult?' My brother - which is why I went on holiday."

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She told the youngster, who has ADHD, he had been involved in "the worst type of feral behaviour in our country" and if an adult, he would be going to jail for up to five years.

However, the judge said she was giving him a "chance" and instead ordered him to complete a 12-month referral order.

He was described as a "lovely" child by his mother, but who had at times a "chaotic" home life.

The boy told the judge he was "sorry" and that he was receiving help from social workers and had taken up boxing.

Previously; Boy, 12, cannot be sentenced over riots after mum left for Ibiza holiday

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[–] FarceOfWill@infosec.pub 14 points 2 months ago

It's just a total coincidence the costs are the same then? Weird story

[–] Etterra@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

I think this kid's mom's behavior highlights exactly why he in particular turned out this way. Having ADHD is not a reason or excuse for participating in a riot. But for a 12-year-old, a neglectful or disconnected mother absolutely could be. At the very least it has to be a contributing factor and a major one.

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 3 points 2 months ago

She needs to get on Skyscanner. You could get a flight and nice villa on airbnb for less than that.

[–] Flyberius@hexbear.net 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Oh I'm glad he's taken up boxing...

I mean, it could be good as an outlet, provided he ends up around the right people.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk -3 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Why? Is she supposed to stop her holiday because her wean threw a few petrol bombs?

[–] Emperor@feddit.uk 18 points 2 months ago

She had decided to fly abroad for the five-day trip the day before her son was due to appear in court

So it's less stopping her holiday and more choosing to bugger off at the very last minute.

[–] 13esq@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago

Yh, not like it's her job to parent the child, that's the government's responsibility!

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yes. Being a parent is a matter of personal responsibility. You have to take responsibility for your sprog's behavior at least until they're of legal age.

That's what is involved in being an adult and a parent.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk -1 points 2 months ago

Isn't the age of responsibility 10

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

She obviously left in the believe that her child couldn't be sentenced with her in absentia