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Updates about lemmynsfw.com

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Any critiques, desire for clarity, outright hatred, whatever have you. I will respond the best I can.

I know there's been some blowback on some of the policy updates but it's been difficult to really explain fully that the restrictive content policy is temporary, this community was very unmanaged for a time and it had to be reigned in somehow and with the limited tools at disposal the temporary policy changes were made.

Here's a comment that also explains a little bit behind the decisions made recently as well.

For community mods, we have a community mod coord matrix group chat now. Feel free to DM about it.

Also, there's another ongoing discussion regarding SFW communities on lemmyNSFW here.

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[–] BigMcLargeHuge@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 year ago

Earlier this evening I tried to make a post on the Genshin Impact NSFW community and while I was able to upload my image I couldn't make the post, I'd like send but nothing would happen. I left it for a couple of minutes, nothing. I tried remaking the post but same thing.

[–] pm_me_ur_pussy@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 year ago

there seems to be an issue with blocking communities. i've blocked a number of communities containing content i'm not interested in but they recently started showing up in the Local feed, such as https://lemmynsfw.com/?dataType=Post&listingType=Local&page=1&sort=New

[–] VmI0Z8i1q6DJ@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Is it possible to receive a notification when one of your posts get deleted? Along with the reason, when included?

I think this would be a good feature.

[–] hwagoolio@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wanted to express that I'm extremely concerned about the banning of @paddedperson and the deletion of their thread saying that they were migrating away from lemmynsfw.

As far as I can tell, @paddedperson was banned for leaking preliminary information about upcoming content policy changes from the admin discussion group. In my view, they were legitimate concerns, and retaliatory action taken against him are very concerning with respect to treatment of whistleblowers.

Can admins comment on this incident?

Truly transparent non-profit organizations (e.g. Wikipedia) typically release meeting minutes (a summary or transcript), or allow the public to attend voting meetings as part of the audience. Can the admins provide a summary or transcript of the votes taken on various decisions?

[–] Limeey@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So I'm not really an "admin" - I'm a sysadmin/developer who was given the role of admin so I can make sure all systems (including modlog, reportings, and other tools) work as we adjust them for this instance's very specific needs.

Padded got banned because he was trying to sabotage the efforts of an entirely volunteer group including revealing our hosting provider. We are not a "non profit organization" - lemmynsfw is a volunteer instance being run on donations. People need to understand that this is no one's "job" and yet it's literally taking a ton of our time. I've spent so many hours pouring over lemmy code, system configurations, working with the mod tool group, brainstorming, writing code, and trying to help the real admins where I can...

And seriously, no one is being paid for this, donations barely cover server costs, and any excess donations are being saved because it's anticipated that server costs will continue to rise while donations don't. Besides, I don't think any of us WANT to be paid for fear of reprisal from our respective governments for "making money" off serving pornography.

When the creator put out his call for help, a bunch of us stepped up to try to keep the server alive, but this is not an easy instance to run. Please understand that.

[–] hwagoolio@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

To be clear, the volunteers/admins at Wikipedia are not paid either. From my personal experience in Wikimedia communities, my sincere advice is to consider and take transparency seriously.

The most important resource in volunteer spaces like this is 'trust'.

I hope you and the admin team recognize that in order to run a website like this, you also require the trust and buy-in from moderators (who are also unpaid) to invest the many hours into their communities just as you have done for the server. Hiding things from moderators, sending mixed messages, and making secret deliberations (with rumors that some admins are eager to remove large quantities of content) is really damaging for that relationship of trust.

The recent content policy changes (even before padded's leak) have been dictatorial top-down decrees. However, these unilateral rule changes are impractical/meaningless when moderators have not agreed to enforce those rules -- and I've personally experienced this (at best, only 30% of the content that I've reported for content policy violations have been addressed by moderators). Realistically, no moderator wants to enforce rules they don't believe in, and if they leave, the departure of skilled talent cripples this website and leaves communities effectively unmoderated in practice.

Please consider improving the transparency of these content policy deliberations, and at the very minimum, incorporate community moderators into the discussion and ascertain that they are in agreement with the rules before rolling out changes on the drop of a dime.

[–] Limeey@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's impossible to please everyone, tend to our jobs, and tend to our families and lives. Concessions will always be made. I don't know how wikipedia handles all that, but I don't see how we can do that.

There is a matrix channel for public lemmynsfw discourse, https://matrix.to/#/#lemmynsfw:matrix.org - there's not a lot of activity there but if you have questions or want a more direct line with us, that's where we are. We can make a mod specific room and invite folks to have a mod-centric discussion if you think that's helpful.

But please, please, PLEASE remember that everyone is volunteering their time, and respect for one another is the most important part of this entire process.

[–] hwagoolio@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm very understanding and sympathetic to the fact that running large communities is difficult.

My impression of the current situation is that trust is especially low between community mods/contributors and the admin team. The only way to repair that trust is through transparency, and I would suggest that your team implement as many measures as possible.

For example, mastodon.world discloses all of their finances.

Content banning and user banning processes need publicly posted procedures. How many warnings does each user get? What is the appeal process like? Banning of communities or users should never occur unless it is in violation of an existing policy. It is not okay to change the rules and ban simultaneously (e.g. as was done with c/scat or c/rapehentai). Instead, provide some advance notice. Ideally, suspend before banning. Provide the banned community or user with information about why they were banned.

In a situation like this, where there is so much wild speculation about the content policy, my honest opinion would just be to make the entire process transparent. For example, I used to write minutes for the mediawiki community I was in and sometimes I would publish saved IRC logs. Example minutes:

  • Date
  • User A submitted this proposal (linked)
  • User B, C said X about the proposal
  • User D said Y about the proposal
  • The vote on this proposal was #-# (# did not vote)
  • The proposal passed and will be implemented on future date Z

Although I suppose it was more important for our community to track all the minutes because we were a volunteer community with elected admins. However, for the situation that you are in, I really think it would be beneficial to pursue transparency to that degree.

[–] ResidentBloodBoner@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

While I'm not sure if there's anything that can be done about it, I really don't like that I'm able to see who reported my content. By not having the reporters be anonymous, it leaves a gateway for people to be harassed by others for making completely legitimate reports.

I'm not sure how likely it is that a case like this has happened already, but as the community grows, we're bound to see people who are here in bad faith.

[–] hwagoolio@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago

Related to this subject -- when a post by a moderator is reported, it ends up going to back to the same moderator to decide on it... when they are most definitely not a neutral party when their own possibly underage flat-chested anime schoolgirl post is reported.

Moderator reports should go to an unrelated third party to adjudicate.

Otherwise, in practice, moderators just resolve all the reports they don't agree with.

[–] ayawnymouse@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago

I get the reasoning, but I do feel that the rules are Way too strict on artwork (as opposed to pics/video of real people) to an unprecedented level. I'd like to see that reevaluated to be more in line with what other sites that allow NSFW permit - if they were facing legal trouble over that content, then they would ban it too, so I think it's pretty evident that they don't.

In particular this whole concept of establishing a "canon age" for every character and disallowing aged-up art strikes me as much worse than simply disallowing any art that looks underage.

[–] unframed0851@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've noticed, that when viewed through pornlemmy.com, communities have redgifs previews, but on lemmynsfw.com they are just links. Compare https://pornlemmy.com/c/cumsluts and https://lemmynsfw.com/c/cumsluts@pornlemmy.com

(You need to open them in web browser)

Can this be fixed?

[–] SummerBarrymore@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago

Please don’t allow communities to ban sellers. I think not allowing advertising in the community itself makes sense. I shouldn’t get excluded for having a fan site though! It’s incredibly entitled to expect girls to post nudity with no way to profit off of it. Give the good talent a reason to post on this platform 💘💘💘

[–] larsalexanderson@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Not sure if this belongs here but...

Does every celebrity or porn star really need their own community?

Was browsing by new and almost every celebs post had a duplicate in the ultra specific community just for that one celeb.

[–] hedidwot@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah... Noticed that. I don't like it, but that said won't it be up to the users to see what survives and takes root?

I'd rather they didn't exist, but at the same time the freedom of this kind of platform might be compromised if mods just start shutting down communities as they see fit.

I'm split 50/50 on this.

[–] pronpronpron@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

won’t it be up to the users to see what survives and takes root?

I would agree, but all these celeb communities is making lemmynsfw nigh-unusable for me. Right now, they make up well north of 90% of all communities on this instance, meaning the front page is devoid of any other content unless one uses subscribed-only view or blocks them all.

Being able to one-click block communities from the communities list would help a lot.

Edit: Nevermind, I'm dumb - Hadn't enabled 'Show NSFW' in settings. Still, I don't see why the celebs can't just all go in /c/celebs.

[–] Madness@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I just made a post after discovering all the local communities. If you're interested you can check this post.

Still, I don’t see why the celebs can’t just all go in /c/celebs.

Then, the same logic is applied to other duplicate subject communities. Age, pussy, hentai, pornstar, asian, bdsm, tits, dick, cosplay, cum, femdom, freeuse, girls, hair, indian, nsfw, onlyfans, porn, sexy, sissy, tiktok, etc. All this subject has multiple communities not just one.

I'm sure as lemmy's grows also this instance (this instance barely one month, btw) we will have new features to take care of all of this and create users' the best experience. The fact maybe I started early and they growing/active fast, they will appear first when you explore communities.

I hope sorting communities will be available soon. I need that too

[–] pronpronpron@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

the same logic is applied to other duplicate subject communities

Yeah, that's fair. I don't have a problem with specialized communities, and I agree that better filtering tools is the way to go.

Until those tools are available though, perhaps you could slow down a little on opening new communities? Take a look at the front page in logged out mode and you'll see what I mean.

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[–] stersr@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

It's all @Madness, he mods 170 communities, almost entirely celebrities.

I have absolutely no interest in celeb communities, and they're clogging everything up. Not sure what the solution here is, as I agree with @hedidwot that just becaue I don't like it doesn't mean they should be removed. Perhaps being able to hide communities by tags or by mod?

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[–] Punyu@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The point is, they can go wherever people want them to go that make a certain community. That's the wole point. If Reddit had been this hardass about creating certain communities or not, it would've never grown as much as it did.

It just sets a really bad precedent. So celeb communities are first, ok. But next we're debating if exhibitionism and holdthemoan should better be just one sub, and then if gonewild and gonewildeurope should just be one, and why do there have to be more than ONE subs for JAV, or hentai, or... the list is endless. Don't start policing the instance like it was a subreddit.

Instead, just switch to "Subscribed", like we all did as the most normal thing in the world a few days ago.

[–] stersr@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Part of the challenge is the discoverability. I like to view the community list or all to find new communities to subscribe to. With the huge number of celeb communities it becomes hard to find content I’m interested in.

[–] Madness@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I just made a post after discovering all the local communities. If you're interested you can check this post.

I'm sure as lemmy's grows also this instance (this instance barely one month, btw) we will have new features to take care of all of this and create users' the best experience. The fact maybe I started early and they growing/active fast, they will appear first when you explore communities.

I hope sorting communities will be available soon. I need that too

[–] larsalexanderson@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I see your point too, which is why I phrased it as a question. Reddit was big enough that these would just be buried. Also, things are so new and in flux I can't just stick to subscribed right now. ONce the dust settles it will be easier to just ignore.

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[–] Limeey@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago

I don't speak for the entire admin team, but I don't think we have any interest in policing the community creation provided they have enough moderators to prevent abuse compared to their level of activity (re: huge communities need more mods than small)

We are looking into users who create communities en-masse and are not active.

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[–] between2boobies@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

I would also like the option to disable downvotes in my community. Thank you.

Edit: I meant disable downvoting for posts only, not sure about comments. It's currently too easily to manipulate voting like it is on reddit.

[–] gavi@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Unfortunately it is only instance wide at the moment.

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[–] Outset2568@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

One of my biggest gripes with Reddit as a platform is the overabundance of amateur models spamming every single subreddit with the exact same posts to shill their OnlyFans and Fansly profiles, even to the point of posting their content in irrelevant subreddits without consequence. It's at the point where the admins have all but abandoned the 10% rule for self-promotion.

Will you be implementing a policy to ban self-promotion for profit (and keep communities like Gonewild purely for exhibitionists), or at least encourage professional content creators to actually interact with the community and not astroturf LemmyNSFW with adverts for their OF like they've done with Reddit?

[–] Limeey@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago

I think it's mostly up to the community moderators to determine whether or not they want that content and how they will police it. As long as it doesn't break site rules (new rules and clarification coming soon) then it's not really something we want to micromanage.

With that said, link spamming is def not ok. I'm open to suggestions on how we can build out the toolchain that can ensure a good quality of posts.

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[–] bartimeo@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think this instance shouldn't try to be federate with the other and accept the role of being the porn hub of Lemmy in wich people makes and account to enter (I did to have porn separated of memes and news).

This should aliviate the need to be so restrictive, specially the broad and ambiguous restrictions like the ones on "nom consent" for drawings in wich consent is... In the eye of the beholder so to speak.

[–] moonbat@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think all the people that want questionable content legally hosted to do it their damn selves and learn the consequences of that choice or shut the hell up.

This is the way. It doesn't matter how restrictive LemmyNSFW gets. You don't have to play by their rules. You can always set up your own instance and play by your own rules.

[–] Hardcorexxx@lemmynsfw.com 0 points 1 year ago

What should we use to post videos/gifs. It should be integrated in the site itself. No one likes to click a link and go to other site to watch a video/gifs.

[–] KrombopulosMikl@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Maybe this is just a problem I’m having, but I can’t access LemmyNSFW with my VPN (Proton VPN) on. I typically have it running all the time, but it seems even more important that it work considering the subject matter.

[–] Limeey@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago

I'm not sure why this would be happening. I'll send a DM and maybe we can track it down.

[–] Kinkybiscuit@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago

Myself and @hellagooned are also having this problem as mentioned in our comments further down.

[–] spicy_mango@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago

Not specifically about the instance but people only here to solicit customers for onlyfans cheapen the place, it would be nicer if there was a community for selling, and the rest didn't allow that.

[–] Leora@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I'm out. I was enjoying this instance at first, but it clearly has shown itself to not be hentai friendly. The rules are way too strict, and are about to get even stricter?? I was going to attempt to work within the rules anyway with my communities, but banning @paddedperson has shown me that I don't infact want to stay here at all. They were running most of the hentai communities here and we were starting to work together to make our communities even better. They had legitimate concerns about the rules that were not being addressed. I've also stated my concerns in this post and have not had any response.

[–] hwagoolio@lemmynsfw.com -1 points 1 year ago

I feel like the admins are disproportionately biased against drawn/hentai artwork.

A lot of the gonewild communities here are allowing unverified reposted images, and I’d venture a random guess that maybe 30% of the content is posted without the model’s knowledge or permission, which poses issues with privacy/consent law (etc).

So why ban hentai scat/bestiality communities yet leave the actually illegal communities untouched? If the admins were as strict with IRL content as they were with hentai, all of these legally questionable communities should be “temporarily” banned until better moderation tools exist.

There’s clearly a double standard here that exists.

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