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Hey there! Tell us what you like! Share your interests, you might find some other buddies who share interests with you. Either way, think of this as sort of a show and tell. Share as much as you'd like. Feel free to show/link some examples if you'd like. Let's have fun with it =)!

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[–] 73kk13@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I'll try to keep it short. These are the things I love doing, even though I sometimes don't have the energy for any of it, except lying in my bed. Being autistic can be quite exhausting.

...tinkering with alternative operating systems for notebooks and smarties.

...watching Star Trek - grew up with it and just don't get tired of (re-)watching. My fav is Voyager.

...playing video games - my favs are Loz - Breath of the Wild and Horizon - Zero Dawn

...reading - mainly SF, fantasy, and non-fic. My fav authors are Stephen Baxter, Robin Hobb, and Henry David Thorau.

...strength training - one of my rooms was turned into a training room.

...cycling - I own an almost 20 years old Specialized Rockhopper and prefer day trips.

...travelling and hiking with my GF - mainly in remote areas such as Lapland for example.

... lying in my bed, since it is the one place with the least sensory triggers.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, my therapist said unfortunately the thing that neurotypical people don't get about being neurodivergent (as a whole) is that sometimes even resting can be exhausting. Which sounds bonkers, I know - but when you sit an think about it for two seconds you say...oh yeah - that is right.

Tinkering is always good, because you can help those around you learn to fish if they're willing. Then in turn...they can help others around them learn to fish...if they're willing. Or you can just work on open source stuff that helps everyone eat =P!

My gal loves Star Trek. She works with the tv on and I keep going out there and seeing her watching one of the new ones. I think her favorite might be the one with the female captain (Jane...Way? Idk - I probably have that wrong. Red headed woman). She said everyone hates it, but she likes it. It's probably the one I've seen the most of as a whole, and I liked it.

My gals' fav game is Breath of the Wild. But we both agree Horizon kinda creeps us out. I dig MoCap (I like it in the made by Supermassive) but there was something always off about Horizon to the two of us. Idk if it's the shadows or something as horror games tend to be dark, and Horizon as far as I remember it was super bright. On my end, it's Curious Expedition all the way. Hands down, my favorite game ever. It's on the Switch if you've got a vague interest in trying it out. Idk if you can mod it though, which really extends the lifespan of it on the PC.

Strength training is always good =)! Same with cycling, although it's not really taken on as much out here. Is Lapland where the indigenous folks are? I gave it a look and saw the reindeer. Just making an assumption, feel free to fill in blanks if you'd liek.

Beds are good, and I <3 mine. Well, no actually. I tolerate mine. I like zzzping on the floor more =P!

Cheers buddy!

[–] Auster@lemm.ee 7 points 3 months ago (10 children)

Linguistics, data hoarding, and when I'm in the mood or have time, gaming and reading.

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[–] mcmodknower@programming.dev 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Analyzing stuff (especially code) down to the last detail on that layer of abstraction. I can tell you one fact about how bad MCreator generated code is, and a lot more about random code bugs (often minecraft related).

The local train line i use nearly daily during the semester.

A bit less reading manga and watching anime.

I also play a bit of osu.

But generally nearly everything that is some kind of intrinsic relation (not names or model numbers but how something works etc.) is interesting for me.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Ooo, I didn't know what MCreator is but I looked it up. Oh yeah, for sure - autogen code is pretty awful. I think it's getting better with ML, but I think in general a part of the reason why they generate "spaghetti code" is so that people can't just a) copy their idea and create a cloned generator and b) people who use services (I mean MCreator I think is free?) can't start to analyze code and figure out how things work and then actually just branch of and create simple websites they self-host instead of paying a monthly or annual fee.

Toss me a cool manga? The last one I read was askfhafkhasfkh....let me have a think...Ichi the Killer. Not my typical bag, but I was on this Takashi Miike kick and I wanted to see the manga behind his infamous movie.

I've met people who have beautiful minds like yours that take apart electronics and build new things from old items. I really dig people like that. It's helped me branch out into trying more on my own. It's also expanded the lifespan of most of my day-to-day devices which I dig. So keep being you, and pass on the inspiration to others =)

[–] mcmodknower@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Mcreator is so bad, if you do a raycast you do it three times. Once for each coordinate axis.

To recommend you a manga i would like to know what kind of manga you like to read. So for now i just tell you the general recommendation of Dungeon Meshi (aka Delicious in Dungeon). Its about a group of adventurers exploring a Dungeon to rescue the sister of one of them. But since they had no time to prepare for that they eat stuff from the dungeon (monster meat, fungi, plants that grow in there). You can probably read it at your local library.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, that is kind of sketch. I wonder if it's done that way because when they compile it each function is written as a single line as to not confuse the compiler? (As in there was some kind of bug found that they found that they chose the simplest route to fix even if it's the most convoluted/memory intensive manner of fixing it.)

I just asked for whatever you dug and figured I would check it out and if I liked it I would read it and if it wasn't my cup of tea no harm, no foul =)! Thanks for passing it on. I used to read a lot more manga, but I had the itch for something and I am more apt as a person on the whole to read something suggested than tracked down. So thanks again =)! Esp the cute little summary. I feel like this could be a cute game, or a mod. Which by the by, you should make =P!

[–] mcmodknower@programming.dev 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I assume it is that way so they don't let the users deal with the Position type directly. But that is speculation on my side.

I could try making a mod out of part of the mechanics described and shown in the manga, but that would take a long time. If i remember it when i'm back at my pc i'm gonna put it into my list of ideas for programming projects (but it will probably take years until i actually start creating the mod)

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[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 6 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I'm in a space of flux right now. I once could tell you everything on the face of this planet about dogs, I really got into the AKC. Which is funny because I didn't have a dog myself. I still talk dogs, with my mother. Who really loves them herself (well a certain type) and think maybe my interests might have been influenced by hers? Not sure.

There was a time when I could tell you the price of everything in the store, down to the penny. But prices fluctuate so much nowadays. And there really isn't much point to this "super power." I think I picked it up so that I could always budget, and it really helped me fly for a long time. Now I soft-budget instead and guesstimate based off of average prices of things in relation to their worth to my being.

I am super obsessed with mustalids and am pretty sure they are god's gift to the world. I've been known to crack a fact or two at (and yeah, I mean at here sadly) people at random because they jazz me up so hard.

I feel a swing back into my one true love, illustration. I am not sure where this is going right now, but I have been dreaming of hitting up a series. That I have been unraveling as I sleep (literally in my dreams - I can have a think when I sleep) about how I want to go about it. Some cool folk on here showed me a new art program and I wanna give it a go with a series and see how it turns out. I want it to be convoluted, uncomfortable, and in the style/surrounding my interests of some of my favorite illustrators. I have been smooshing and smashings bits together and I am about to move on it. So pretty excited there.

Here's to hoping you guys share yours =)

[–] 73kk13@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I love dogs! I don't have one yet, but I most certainly will. I'm pretty sure it will help me cope with stress.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 1 points 3 months ago

Someone on here said their life was pretty poop until they dogged it up. Dogs tend to heal the souls of their owners pretty well. Just be aware of the things you need to do in order to keep their quality of life pretty solid =)

[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I am super obsessed with mustalids and am pretty sure they are god’s gift to the world. I’ve been known to crack a fact or two at (and yeah, I mean at here sadly) people at random because they jazz me up so hard.

I know very little about mustelids except that most of them are SO CUTE. Tell me some cool things, please?

Also, are you a fan of the illustrator Michael Whelan? I just rediscovered some of his works because he started posting on Mastodon and it's lovely nostalgia.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 3 months ago

Hey, hey! I don't know Michael Whelan actually, but I did look him up while on the phone yesterday. Which by the by, sorry I am getting back to you late. I was on an epic quest with my mama searching for a lost 30+ year old game. Didn't find it, but she was happy by the end, so that was nice. Oh hey, now that I am having a look I wonder if this is the guy a former roommate told us (my partner and I) about when I was drawing a fantasy image one time. Cause he kinda looks like it. You know, I will tell you I am absolutely awful at backgrounds. To this day, I wish I were better. Scenery is ??? an abstract idealism to me. Even with that picture, was hard for me to push through. I wish I could get stronger with it - and it's something that I swore to myself I would do.

I personally think that mustelids are the coolest guys around, and thanks for asking about them. I have three little blubs, and they're my sweet babies. They're carnivores, not rodents - which a lot of folks get twisted. In fact, they eat rodents, which was a fun thing to see in the wild this year - as I looked outside and watched a small weasel speed its way past my door with a dead curled up mouse in its mouth. They've actually got the smallest mammalian carnivore in their order, and they contain some really cool relations including otters and badgers.

While I love them, they are an invasive species in some locations, as they're obligate carnivores that are opportunistic eaters. Colonist in attempts to keep down certain populations (such as rats in Hawaii and rabbits in New Zealand) ended up disrupting the ecosystem and as these places have a lot of ground-birds the weasels they introduced just decimated the population. But in all honesty, they will eat anything they can take down. Which might not be much as most are solitary, but they have also been known to be quite vicious when paired (which can be known as a boogle or a buisness).

I love the fact that most weasels tend to mate for life, forming bonded-pairs. Which is unfortunately a double-edged sword for domesticated babes, because one will kill themselves with depression if their other passes. Which I have seen first hand, and no amount of love tend to bring them back. Another interesting fact is that they tend to be diurnal - and typically hunt at dawn and dusk. Although some can be nocturnal. Their coats change with the seasons, which can include changing colors or growing thicker or thinner. I believe the lot tend to shed bi-annually. But I could be wrong on that one. As I can't imagine a honey badger doing so. But I haven't looked into it exclusively.

Outside of that we've been domesticating them for ~2,000 years. WWI veterans kept them in their bags as what I'd like to think of as emotional support animals. If you bag train a babe, you can take them around and they just chill with you. But they are for sure an exotic pet. They're very high maintenance and I would explicitly recommend them for individuals who can support the lifestyle they need and are absolutely obsessed (like, yo!) Otherwise I would recommend something simpler like a dog or a cat.

We've got our litter trained, and they are free roaming. But we have to keep the house a pretty brisk temperature because they can't go over a certain temp or they can heat stroke out. I am not sure how well a majority of them are going to fair with global warming. One of DaVinci's six (I mean not actually six, but he doesn't have an excessive painting catalogue and tended to linger on paintings for extended periods of time) was Lady with an Ermine which looks like one of my bebs! But it always geeks me out, by the by I believe the ermine was added later to the painting, but I don't really remember the ins and outs of it. Speaking of which, these guys are long - have slinky bodies which are great for tunneling. And they are both predator and prey. You should have a look at the weasel war dance because it's pretty funny =)! They also make hilarious noises, that a fellow fur-mom describes as "chicken noises."

Idk if that was enough, but it's all that came from la cabeza real stream of conciousness style =P!

Eitehr way, cheers, and I hope you go and watch some really cute fur-boy videos and cool conservationist docs. p.s. - I joke that once we were all weasels because look at the first mammal.

[–] the_toast_is_gone@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I'm really into radio tech (licensed amateur operator), tabletop RPGs, video games, and fictional religions.

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Yo, what do you play?

Radio tech is cool, ever knew one person who dug it. My childhood bestie's dad. He finessed the hey outta his van and just chilled out in his 70s style decked out phat ass van and would listen to his RV.

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[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago (3 children)

What RPGs? I'm currently reading through Girl By Moonlight, which is a derivative of the Blades in the Dark system, and it's fantastic. Also Brindlewood Bay is charming AF

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[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Pro wrestling, specifically AEW, NXT and Mystery Wrestling. I'm a sucker for good comedy wrestling, and Chuck Taylor is my favorite male wrestler (even though he had to mostly retire this year). https://youtu.be/zlAHrHL_FCc?si=kaj76TB8WZP78nSj links to one of Chuck's best spots, the BOLA grenade!

Rabbits. Rabbits are incredible. They're not rodents even though their teeth continue growing throughout their lives, and they have no paw pads. They're basically like having tiny cuddly fuzzy deer or horses in your house without the poop issues.

Pokemon first gen, particularly Jigglypuff and her evolution family including Scream Tail. I found out today that Rachael Lillis, the original anime voice of Jigglypuff (and Misty, and Jessie) passed away this weekend and I'm a little heartbroken.

I'm also crazy about rogue-likes and rogue-lites, and I can't wait for Hades 2 to officially release 😁

[–] mcmodknower@programming.dev 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Do you know shattered pixel dungeon? Its an open source rougelike that you can play on your smartphone or pc.

[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I hadn't heard of that one! Can you tell me more about it?

[–] mcmodknower@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Its a pixelart rougelike that i found somewhere in my linux package list, tried out, and liked. I could tell you about some mechanics, but its probably better to see for yourself at its website http://shatteredpixel.com/shatteredpd/ or the pixeldungeon community pixeldungeon@lemmy.world .

[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Ooh, I've seen this community pop up in my local! I'll take a peek. Thank you!!

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[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Idk if you're into wrestling games but they've got some pretty fucking naners ones on Steam. But people like you always keep me alive. Cause legitimately I never had a personal direct interest in wrestling, but growing up my folks who did always kept me in the know. And you guys have so much passion it gives me life. I've seen a couple of gigs and it's always super entertaining. I've pretty much got one guy left in the life and his joy is contagious. Only catch is I don't understand a damn thing about the game anymore. Simple example is I have absolutely no clue who Chuck Taylor is (I was like - shoes?) BUT! You're so jazzed and I dig that.

Rabbits are incredible! I can't have them, because my lovelies sustain off of them =_o!! Their paws are wonderful though, I agree. As are the paws of chinchillas. Not the same, but the only other creature I can think of that is int he same boat. Not sure if you're into camp and absolute goofy horror but they made a horror movie with cutie bunnies called Night of the Lepus.

Hmm, RIP!

Gunna put my favo rl here. Plop.

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[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Fermenting everything. I have made beer shout out !homebrewing@sopuli.xyz and sourdough bread for years. I just started a ginger bug to make me own sodas and have made jalapeno pickles for the first time. Next on my list is hot sauce.

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[–] Halasham@dormi.zone 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)
  • Video Games Mostly those that allow me to tinker or engineer or just optimize from a lot of options available to the player. Minecraft, especially with the Create Mod, is a great example. I can engineer to my heart's content with it. Space Engineers is one that if feels like I should love it but I have a hard time getting into it.
  • Leftist Political Ideologies Mostly Marxism and it's sub-groups but also Anarcho-Communism as well. This includes the history of attempts at those systems and modern examples. Sometimes this gets frustrating when I encounter an unironic use of a wholly, or almost wholly, false point being brought out again. Unfortunately some of the big names have writing styles so dry they could sap the moisture from the Atlantic.
  • World History in general Especially early to mid modern history and ancient history. Military history from any point in time is also pretty enjoyable to me. Sometimes it's frustrating like learning that a major problem of today was almost wholly caused by one person in the past having a particular preference for X over Y (ex Ford preferring internal combustion for his cars over battery power).
  • Urban Design I like learning about what is and isn't effective in terms of how to build places that work for people. What makes places safer or more dangerous, how to reduce stress through little design tricks, and how places can be a net positive for the wider area they're in. Also trains on both large and small scale.
  • Computer Programming/IT Out of all my interests this is the one I'm perusing as something I could have a job doing. Working with computers strikes a nice balance between rules being clear and exact and being open-ended enough to allow for creative solutions. Also learned I have a strong preference for C++ over Javascript. That may be because I learned C++ first and Javascript is a lot more typing intensive to do simple things.
[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Hey, are you the human that said that you felt uncomfortable with the weird movement? Cause someone here said that and said they were Anarcho-Communist and here ^^ You're saying that too. I, without reading anything (like a well informed human) have been kicking around what this concept could even be. I didn't want to read about it yet, because it's really easy to just tip-tap-type on the internet and *click* bing -> get an answer. But I wanted to kick around what this is. And I am still kind of at a loss. Best I can come to is Anarchism <---- Void order/government | Organized for the people/Equality ----> Communism. So you're like a...order-less egalitarian? Idk, you can give me the low-low or I can start giving it a lookie loo, but it's what I came to.

On history, I have been trying to tease this out of my brain as well. But more so this concept that humans are not wholly different than we ever have been. Even if technology has changed us. And I was thinking that perhaps we could use the basin of knowledge of historians to point towards past-follies which might help our current ones. I know someone on here had a fantastic explanation of fascism and how it often uses arguments that contradict themselves. I would love more easily digestible factoids that could be slowly spread en-masse to others to wake the masses from their lulls. I think it'd be pretty great. Also thanks to someone on here I spent about three hours chunking through the 30 Year War earlier. I wish history was one of my fixations, but it is fun to dabble with.

Urban design is interesting, because I think the way American cities are built are pretty bunk and I would love to see a revitalization movement not full of all those weird mod-esq blocky greige apartments. I wish we upped the foot traffic and downed the car traffic. Trains are great too, not sure why America didn't want to install rails all over the joint. I feel crippled if I don't have a Metro I can hop on =

If you have a quaint personality and can communicate well you can do well as a dev. I wish you could be a cave troll, living in isolation, rolling out code waterfall style. I want to hunt whoever created Scrum Most Dangerous Game style. But that's just me. If you dig C++, study C++. It doesn't really matter what language you learn, just that you understand the concepts behind the act. And then you can translate that to other languages if you need to - and pick up the nuances as you go. And of course, first and foremost just being able to understand what to look up and what to reach out over.

Eh.

But I'm not genius or nothing. Either way feel free to talk back =)

[–] Halasham@dormi.zone 2 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Actually I'm a Marxist. However don't see much reason in perpetuating the red/black divide. Both groups have the same end-goal in mind, we just want to do the two major steps in reverse order compared to each-other. The end goal is a stateless society without need of currency and without the division of people into different classes. To drastically oversimplify centuries of work to get there we need to do two things:

  • Abolish Capitalism
  • Abolish Nationalism

Side note: As you may be able to infer from those two steps Anarcho-Capitalism and National Socialism aren't really from either system, rather they've pretty much just stolen the terms for their use rather that denote relatedness to other Anarcho-s or Socialisms.

Communists want to do them in the order I presented, generally by seizing control of the State and using it to destroy capitalism then adopting reforms to slowly make the State pointless. Anarchists want to destroy the State first then get rid of Capitalism.

One big misconception about Anarchism is that it isn't for chaos and disorder, it's for the end of unjustified hierarchy. An actual Anarchist experiment would still have social order, rather than be the chaotic social breakdown that is called Anarchism as a means of disinformation. A lot of Anarchist works explain how systems of voluntary cooperation can work and would be helpful to society.

Unfortunately America's bad urban design is the product of legal corruption, lobbying, on the part of the automotive industry. Good urban design invalidates any need for a car and so the companies that make and sell cars pour billions into ensuring that ours will continue to be horrible. We used to have trains that went everywhere and they were great but again that was all unraveled for the sake of the dead-last worst way to move people in bulk: cars.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)
  • Games (video, board, sports; if it's a game, I'm into it)
  • Comedy
  • Writing

And that's pretty much it.

[–] ladytaters@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago (2 children)

What board games are you into right now? My partner collects them and we play some fun stuff!

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 2 points 3 months ago

The newest one I have is Survive: Escape from Atlantis.

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[–] iamdisillusioned@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (5 children)

I'm into nail art, Seinfeld and watching my cats destroy my house... and I usually enjoy them all at once.

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[–] Murdoc@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Audhd here, so way too many interests to list (short list here: https://social.vivaldi.net/@Murdoc). But my biggest long-standing one is called Technocracy. Not how the word gets used most of the time today, but rather the proposed sustainable and post-scarcity economic system devised in the 1920s. Not only is it just interesting from being a novel and well-designed system, but it deals with so many important issues like poverty, environmentalism, sexism, racism, crime, and all in an objective, hard scientific way (i.e. not "political science"). All that science and progressivism (from 100 years ago too!) just delights my autistic brain no end. Here's my attempt to make the topic more accessible to the modern audience: https://technate.org/tiki-index.php

[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

AU-D-FREAKIN'-H-D!!!!! Yo!

Top link doesn't work here =<

I was thinking about this the other day. I kinda wanted to do an askie-poo here but I just said feh! But if we could speak on alternate time lines - how could we have changed the world in order to set it up for the success of the most plausible amount of individuals versus the sort of caste-goop we've got going on right now.

GL on building your TIKI by the by, maybe you should ask the question and invite others to participate in building it?

[–] Murdoc@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

🙂 👋

Weird, the link works for me. :/

Oh, I've certainly thought of alternate time-lines. Aspiring writer here. Trying to turn one of them into a novel (well, novel series lol), but you know, ADHD. So I could certainly talk at length about that.

Thanks. I've tried getting help. What few have accepted never seemed to have the time, or else they had too much trouble with the wiki paradigm? Idk. It's been a struggle. Which is too bad since I tend to work better (i.e. more often) when others are involved.

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