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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[โ€“] relaxdontdoit@masto.ai 1 points 1 year ago

@Acetamide This has been coming for a long time, I'm glad the community is being a chance to move on to spaces which aren't just trying to suck blood.

i'm sad that reddit is dogshit, but excited to watch lemmy grow and to have the opportunity to be a part of its growth

[โ€“] seesaw@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

I'm permanently suspended anyway, there's no way back. They somehow find me if I create a new account lol

[โ€“] unfazedbeaver@lemmy.one 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I miss what I lack, but reddit was also going stagnant. Time to build something greater. Decentralized, but moderated, social media is an interesting idea.

Lemmys devs' political... "Leanings" sure concern me though

[โ€“] invincible@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

OOTL here. what political leanings?

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[โ€“] mook@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago

Um. Yeah. Taking a break from it for a few days during the blackout. Checking out the fediverse and am loving lemmy, pixelfed, and mastodon. Just joined kbin today but am a bit confused about it because I haven't found a mobile app that supports it. There are a ton of subreddits that I am missing incredibly, but you know it'll be all right. I'm hoping lemmy grows a bit, but not too big. I just enjoy a string of random posts.

[โ€“] eifer@urbanists.social -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@Acetamide I don't understand why though. We live in a capitalist system, and therefore Reddit has to make money in order to survive. On the current path, Reddit won't exist AT ALL. So we either get a Reddit with some fees that devs don't like, or no Reddit at all.

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[โ€“] fairysnuff@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 year ago

It's so stupid that people would react so emotionally as to relate their feelings to a breakup. This should be a concern to each and every one of you. It's a website. You can get your dopamine hit elsewhere, with TikTok and other sources being still available.

The rage from the Reddit community has been surprising but this broken form of emotional regulation is embarrassing.

[โ€“] teuast@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago

Sometimes it's time for a change.

[โ€“] Seigest@lemmy.ca -2 points 1 year ago

I feel that. Reddit's bit of an addiction for me. I don't use other social media so it became my one stop shop for news, inspiration, and to connect with all the little niche intrest.

Oddly, I was frequently just doom scrolling r/all to see what was going on the the world. And when I ran out of revent stuff if just sort by new. Super unhealthy behavior.

Hopfully this transition will help me slow down a bit and get back to reality.

[โ€“] fairysnuff@lemmy.ml -3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It's so stupid that people would react so emotionally as to relate their feelings to a breakup. This should be a concern to each and every one of you. It's a website. Reacting this way is delusional. You can get your dopamine hit elsewhere, with TikTok and other sources being still available, so why the breakdown?

The rage from the Reddit community has been surprising but this broken form of emotional regulation is embarrassing.

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