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[–] Maerman@beehaw.org 23 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Hi, I'm four babies in a trenchcoat. My interests include grown-up things like businessing and adulting. I am definitely an adult. Ignore the first sentence.

[–] ramius345@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

Vincent Adultman :-)

[–] BobQuasit@beehaw.org 14 points 2 years ago

Hi! I'm not just a Reddit refugee, but an everything refugee. Or at least, that's how it feels. I've been online since the mid-80s, and I've seen platform after platform be acquired and burnt down under me. I'm pretty much used to it by this point.

That doesn't mean I like it.

I'm an old-time geek. Huge bibliophile, particularly fond of old science fiction, fantasy, mysteries, children's books, YA, classics, and humor. Oh, add graphic novels and manga to the list. I'm also a long time tabletop RPG player and GM. My system of choice is the Avalon Hill edition of RuneQuest 3; my RQ site might be the oldest one still existing. Of course I play other systems as well. I'm into deep role-playing, and would definitely like to find people who are interested in that sort of thing!

My primary activity over on Reddit was recommending books. I have a resource of nearly a thousand book recommendations that I have created over the years. Hoping to be able to make recommendations on Lemmy, too.

What else? I'm a pretty good public speaker, and was an invited program participant (i. e. panelist) at a regional New England science fiction convention for over 25 years. I'm an atheist, but I advocate tolerance and understanding between atheists and theists (and yes, I've done panels on that topic too; they were great).

I was a redhead when I had hair, with a redheaded son. I'm the single divorced father of a newly-adult son. I'm currently unattached. Oh, and I'm apparently demisexual.

I live in Massachusetts, USA. I like cats, cooking, walking, and well-written TV and movies. I've been refining my grilling techniques for about 35 years now, on a lifelong quest to make the perfect burger.

[–] toshmonaut@beehaw.org 13 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I'm yet another reddit refugee. Just wanted everyone to know that there's a combination emoji for a bee wearing a cowboy hat:

Beehaw brother

[–] kalanggam@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I hope you know this emoji has made it to the Discord 🤭 Welcome to Beehaw!

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[–] emptyother@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Hi, im a redditor. Probably won't be for long though.

Im a c# and typescript developer, computer enthusiast, avid book and comic reader, and a fantasy and scifi fan. Im very introverted and agoraphobic, unskilled at social stuff, badly overweight and less-than-optimally-active, and just started on anti-depressants. Other than that im an utterly boring person.

[–] Moneymunkie@beehaw.org 12 points 2 years ago

Ahhhh I know the pain bud, I've struggled with that myself as well, in a better spot than I was though still a bit of derp. Felt like I was a complete snoozefest of a person and that I was pretty unlikeable, depression is a total bitch like that.

Don't mean you're a boring person though, like it seems you enjoy a nice mix of stuff and there ain't no shortage of folk on here who dig things like programming, comics, etc as well on here and folk are pretty chill and welcoming from what I've seen so far too.

Credit where credit is due though, its a really difficult thing trying to live your life with depression hanging over you, but hey you've still gone and made a post and are starting on anti-depressants, these are some pretty awesome big steps even if they don't particular feel like it right now :)

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[–] Olon97@beehaw.org 9 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Here from Reddit (Apollo user).

I am a HS Biology teacher with a previous career in game development. Very involved in gamification and VR in education (creating in VR, the apps that can be used in a classroom are lacking at the moment).

If it dates me, I had a Digg account back in the day and have spent more time on MySpace than Facebook.

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[–] SugarApplePie@beehaw.org 9 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Heya everyone. Found this place when I was looking for Reddit alternatives after getting the shut down message in Apollo. Checked the list of alternatives on a subreddit and was immediately grossed out by transphobic sites and fucking VOAT of all places being in the list, so randomly running into this place after that was very relieving.

Big into tabletop RPGs, started with Pathfinder 1st edition a long time ago but have mostly been playing D&D 5th edition with some sprinklings of OSR and PbtA-influenced games (well, game, singular. Blades in the Dark is super fun though!) Like most tabletop fans probably, I'm also into fantasy/sci-fi media.

Happy weekend!

[–] goat@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago

voat's been dead for years. it was a great place to troll the losers there though.

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[–] Deestan@beehaw.org 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Yo!

Software developer and gamer. Started on the Commodore 64 with both and never stopped.

Having been through several tech enshittification cycles, I've long been wondering when Reddit would be too "meh" for me. That happened earlier this week, when I decided that Lemmy was more the tech and community I was looking for. Planned to leave gracefully during June.

Then I saw the AMA and... That set off my "Fuck This Shit with a Vengeance" so currently coding up a script to make my Reddit account die very ungracefully.

[–] emptyother@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

I too started on C64! Though in my case it was as late as '92 when a seven year young kid got an already old C64 with cassette player, a manual, and no games. Sometimes one gotta make ones own fun, literally.

[–] Smiley@kbin.social 7 points 2 years ago

Hello there! I'm Smiley, lovely to meet you all. (✿◡‿◡)

Like a lot of new people here I'm a Reddit refugee. I've always been a lurker so making posts and commenting is rather daunting, though from what I've seen this community is really nice. :D
I look forward to posting my art, photography and cat pics! 🎨📸🐈💖

[–] OmnipotentEntity@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

Hi, I'm Omni. Older cis het white dude. Likes math. Not as dipshitty as the previous two sentences imply, I hope.

In a previous life, I wrote a moderately successful indie game. Currently, working part time in R&D for a small nuclear engineering company, and spending the rest of my time in independent study. Currently working on group theory.

[–] ffmike@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

I dunno if I really qualify as a "Reddit refugee" as I wasn't particularly active there...a few dozen posts, a few hundred comments, all now deleted. But it was the current reddit mess that got me looking around for other communities and finding Lemmy & Beehaw. I've been online and in various communities since basically forever (Usenet, Puppy [the easier version of Fido to run on a first-generation PC], MajorBBS, CompuServe, The WELL, IRC, etc. etc.) but I promise to try not to play the "get off my lawn" card too often.

I had a medley of jobs for the most part in the tech space, and I've been happily retired for a few years now, because my DW has a good job with a BigCo and I prefer keeping the house clean to writing more code for other people. These days I mostly just try to get outside and hike as much as I can, but I like having at least a tiny bit of online community available.

Politically I lean pretty far to the left, having spent a chunk of my youth fairly active in anarchist circles. These days I'm more of a pragmatist who just wants people to be nice to each other.

It's possible that someone will recognize this username from elsewhere, in which case: yes, it's me, and no, I don't feel like discussing things from decades in the past.

[–] GossipGuyXOXO@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

Hey guys I made a post. This is my first post and will probably be making more posts if the vibe is right.

[–] Nairners@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Hey everyone! Thought I'd add to the ever growing pile of Reddit refugees. In all seriousness I have been watching in horror at how reddit has been declining over the last few years and the 3rd party app debacle has finally forced me out into what seems a much healthier and happier community. Can't wait to get to chat to you all!

[–] skepticalifornia@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

I’m a Reddit refugee, been trying Beehaw and Kbin. Kudos to whatever was done to improve the speed here, it is lightning fast today! Kbin, not so much - the owner there had to implement DDOS protection and it is largely unusable at the moment. All of this is a work in progress and is rather exciting! I am going to switch over to Lemmy in full from Reddit, and I think this will end up being just fine.

[–] themoleofdoom@feddit.de 6 points 2 years ago

Hey there. I'm yet another redditor that has joined lemmy today to see what the world looks like beyond the walls of the pile of crap that my former digital home has turned into. Still learning how things work around here but definitely like the general vibe of things.

[–] ratboy@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Hello I'm a nonbinary/masc leaning lil guy. I work with high risk populations at a non profit in the pnw. Feels weird to not be a programmer or something, seems that's what all the bee-hawers and fediverse users are into these days. Um, I'm autistic and have adhd, in my mid 30s, like to ride my bike, play pikmin bloom, garden, and take up hobbies quickly and then leave them for like 3 years. Oh I am also a really yuge music nerd, like, actually. Mmmmmmmyeap

[–] modifier@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 years ago

I'm modifier, and until yesterday, reddit was my only social network-ish thing, and where I wasted much of the last 10 years.

My 30s are in my rear view mirror but feel closer than they appear.

I am married to my best friend, I work in travel and travel a lot for work and fun, I am sexually adventurous, intellectually curious, and musically promiscuous.

A number of cats live with me and graciously accept my offerings of food and adoration. When I'm not adoring them, I'm either reading, playing video games, or doing something related to maps or flags, though I've found that adoring cats is an activity that stacks well with many other activities.

[–] MayonnaiseArch@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Hi, I'm an architect and I eat too much mayonnaise. Used to be on reddit and forums and bbses and I found my way here. I love reading scifi but I wasn't too active on reddit because of the enders game brownshirts. It's nice being here

[–] RadioRat@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

As a neurodivergent person of trans experience, online socializing is critical for safely recharging my social needs. This seems like a good refuge from the plague of corporate interests at the moment. I'm excited to explore and enthuse with everyone :)

Some biographical descriptors:

  • friend of critters, plants, and computers
  • enthusiastic spouse and coparent to 3 hounds
  • radical egalitarian
  • queer guy of trans experience
  • inhabitant of a spicy CNS
  • former biomedical researcher
  • current software engineer
  • aspiring physician
  • cPTSD survivor
  • AR/VR enthusiast
  • armchair philosopher
  • anticapitalist

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[–] cih@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

Hello! I do photography for a living but the social web is my hobby, I also l love tinkering with websites. I've been online since 1998; I started with MetaFilter (I still use it), saw the downfall of both digg and, recently, reddit. I enjoy being a part of relatively small and well-moderated communities, and Beehaw seemed very nice from the get go, so I'm here.

[–] gospelofjohnny@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Hey everyone! I’m excited to be here. I’m still learning how everything works but I look forward to the future! I have a question though, if I’m interested in, say, working out, I can’t seem to find any communities. Does anyone know of where I can find a workout community, or do I need to join a different instance outside of beehaw?

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[–] Melkor@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Hello from jerboa on Android! Another reddit refugee, former digg refugee ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ ͡⁠°⁠ ͜⁠ʖ⁠ ͡⁠°⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

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[–] Nix@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Glad to see that I am not the only one a bit lost but excited with this transition from reddit.

Hopefully this fediverse-thing will be way better and more resilient than everything past.

I was finally able to subscribe to other instances. YAY!

[–] Gigagoblin@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

Henlo, I am Gigagoblin! 30's, neurospicy, non-binary, queer. Kinda over all the labels, honestly, just trying to exist. I'm very low-energy & social situations make me spill spaghetti everywhere, but it's easier to connect online! I kinda have huge trouble getting started on things, as well as finishing them & my interests come & go. That said, I'm into writing (poetry & lyrics, mostly), music, movies (especially horror!), cyberpunk, fantasy, spooky things & Digimon. There are manga & anime I enjoy, but I'm not like, obsessed with the mediums. I also enjoy all kinds of gaming, but it's hard to commit when your brain can suddenly decide The Thing is no longer sparking joy.

Essentially, I'm trying my best in the framework I was given. I know I've treated people poorly in the past due to my own pain. It's easy to take it out on others when you're miserable & without hope. Thing is though, I'm also a parent to the most wonderful child & I need to be the kind of person she deserves.

It turns out I'm better off without the people I'd been hanging out with for 15 years, but it also means I'm basically friendless at this point. I don't usually mind the solitude, but sometimes the silence becomes deafening. I guess it's because it's no longer really a choice? Anyway, looking forward to chatting with people here! Apologies if I'm immediately coming across as super depressing, I seem to always be "going through some stuff" & I'd rather paint an honest picture of myself!

[–] green_witch@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago

Hello, I'm green_witch!

I'm a travel-weary drifter from the festering ruins of "that place", where I spent most of my time lurking.

I enjoy herbalism, mycology, bushcraft, botany, nature, and consider myself a student therein. I'm unfortunately pretty timid, and my grasp on language is tenuous at best, but I'm trying to open up more and (hopefully) be a part of a community.

I hope we can all treat each other well and make something neat together.

[–] IcedCoffeeBitch@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Hi! I'm a trans woman who likes for the most part gaming stuff and programming(said every Redditor trans woman ever!)

I also like:

  • Music (Mostly metal and progressive rock, with some pop on the side). I'm also learning to play the guitar.
  • Animals, especially cats and dogs, in that order 😼
  • Transformers, been an important part of my early childhood.
  • Reading, though I haven't been able to really get into that hobby yet
  • Watching TV, for the most part animation, Star Wars, and some others. Favorite series, in no order: Gravity Falls, The Owl House, Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Transformers Prime, Clone Wars
  • Movies are cool too. From the top of my head I like Nobody, the first Monty Python(haven't watched the others), Lord of the Rings(recently watched Two Towers for the first time, gonna watch Return of the King soon), Into/Across The Spiderverse, all Star Wars movies except sequels and most of the Disney Rennaisance stuff. I used to like Marvel movies but I got burnt out.
  • Favorite videogames of all time include: Titanfall 2, Portal 2, Kirby Superstar Ultra, Kirby and the Amazing Mirror, Sonic Mania, Earthbound, Mother 3, Super Mario Galaxy, Celeste, Mega Man X, and some others I may have forgotten.
[–] Whar@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm an asexual tomboy that's studying web dev to give a turn to her career (I worked in OSHA) and I'm loving it!

Doing formal studies and already passed my first year, now I'm going to complete some courses to prepare for the next and last year and hopefully get a job after the internship.

I love strategy and building video games, I like K-pop (well, mostly I like Super Junior), writing, and language learning (currently learning Korean).

I've seen some devs here, can you guide me to some places where I can find projects to build organized by concepts, tools, and/or difficulty?

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[–] squid010@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I haven't posted yet, I guess I made an account on a different thing but it looks like I can still post here. Hope that's okay! You all seem so welcoming and kind.

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[–] seedling@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago

Hi everyone! I didn't actually use Reddit much, but all of a sudden everyone on Mastodon started talking about Lemmy and I thought I'd check it out.

I'll mostly use this account to talk about TTRPG stuff and the creative interests that I have around that, since this is the name I generally go by online when I talk about those things. I've managed to accumulate a lot of neglected hobbies - I'm trying to get better at drawing, I'm very much a self-taught beginner at linocut printing, I've dabbled in bookbinding and want to do more. In terms of TTRPGs I like a bit of everything, especially on the indie side, but lately I've been most interested in Into the Odd style rules light games and solo games.

[–] MrMcNamerica@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago

Hi! In an effort to not be a lurker, I’m going to introduce myself. I’m mid thirties, product manager by trade, dog person who recently came to have a cat when a kitten wandered into my house two weeks ago. Cis male. Bad at posting. Excited to see where this goes!

[–] Cosmonaut_Collin@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Hey guys, I am another one of the reddit refugees. I mostly used reddit to look at memes, get news about the us economy, view world news, and stay in the loop with gaming news. I can't wait to find new communities to join and experience the joy of a social media site in its infancy. Even on reddit, it seemed like all of the cool stuff was the early years of the site. Hopefully I can witness the famous or infamous posts this site will produce.

[–] super_user_do@feddit.it 4 points 2 years ago

Hi! I'm Peppe, just your average end user with a little bit of poltiical conscience

[–] Canadian_Bakin@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

Hi all! Another one of those pesky "reddit-fugees” as it were. It was my only sort of “social media” which I mostly used to post pictures of things I baked and try to have positive interactions with other online community members. So needless to say I’m glad I found this server/instance and I’m looking forward to participating in the community.

Beeeeeeeeeeeehawwwwwwwww!!! 🍁

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[–] megpoid 4 points 2 years ago

I'm a 22 year old student and recently a Reddit refugee, still trying to find the right communities in this network. I like linguistics, languages in general, biology and, as a stereotypical nerd, anime, manga, TTRPG and videogames, though I play mostly older games, through emulation.

[–] PurrJPro@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago

An all pronouns using aroace agender with a deep love of tech, videogames, writing, art, and gender non conformity. I recently graduated from high school, and I am planning on going to tech/writing. I'm also planning on building my own PC soon! It'll hopefully help me understand technology a lot more :3

[–] plactagonic@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Can I use really bad introduction line?

[–] Maerman@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] plactagonic@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I don't have to but:

Hi I'm Plactagonic and I have slight issue with alcohol...

Right now I don't have any.

Sorry this bad joke pops in my mind every time somebody wants to introduce me.

[–] Moneymunkie@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

My dad joke variation of this is to say...

"I may have a drinking problem"

"I don't know how to hold the bottle!"

Its gotten a few groans of anguish but then that seems par for the course with my humour :p

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[–] retronautickz@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago

Hi, I'm Pallas/retronautickz. I can't consider myself a refugee, even though I use(d) Reddit, because I'm not new to the fediverse and it wasn't the Reddit API changes that made me decide to try Lemmy, but rather wanting to try out other forms of federated social networks other than the one I already use (mastodon)

About me? I'm 29, vegan, queer, neurodivergent and disabled. My interests are languages, both learning and conlanging, and anything vintage (my username being a reference to this). If my profile picture isn't clue enough, I'm a big fan of classical music (and I've been since I was a little kid), but I love music in general and I'm open to listen/discover new artists and genres/styles.

[–] MeowKittyWow@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Howdy! I'm a mid-30s game developer. In a past life (my 20s) I was an astronomer, but academia sucks so I gtfo'd. I like to ride bikes, but I fell out of the habit over the pandemic; just getting back into it now. I enjoy boomer shooters, and indie games. Gay and trans and loving it.

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[–] iamhazel@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I apologize for the list of labels but I'm an atheist, autistic, agoraphobic, asexual, epileptic, trans, homeschooled-until-college 28-year-old.

If you met me you'd think I'm a relatively normal person though!

I'm a theatre kid working as a data analyst in local government healthcare.

I'm trying to learn Unreal Engine 5 but I'm struggling to keep going even though it's a lifelong dream. Though I've made good and rewarding progress and I took all next week off to let myself hyperfocus without getting fired.

The Wall by Pink Floyd is my favorite album ever, and the first piece of art to make me sob. Every. Damn. Time.

[–] gabuwu@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Hi I'm gabuwu, aka gabe. I am a 22 year old gay jewish dude and enjoy reading and knitting and crochet! as well as gaming. I also love cats!

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[–] marshadow@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

Yet another Reddit refugee checking in. I find much of the modern social internet overwhelming and exhausting (looking at you, Discord...) so I was glad to find out about Beehaw. I have entirely too many interests and hobbies, which I tend to rotate through as the whim strikes me. At the moment, it's mostly Gunpla kits, Nintendo Switch (I am the filthiest of casuals), and container gardening (50/50 chance I lose interest before I get a single vegetable).

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