Great, but not much help unless as a society we normalise acting on those warning signs and walking away, instead of so harshly judging and even gaslighting those who do (until after its too late, when it changes to the "why didn't you leave" victim blaming).
this post was submitted on 14 Dec 2023
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"My partner reacted negatively when I said no to something they wanted."
This one could use a little more granularity I think. Angry, insulting, and violent I can see, but what about sad, or disappointed; could those not be seen as "negative"? Could even be abuse the other way if one person expects the other to always be cheerful about not letting them have their way.
Sad or disappointed could still accurately describe reactions which are intended to be emotionally manipulative. It's possible that this particular disambiguation could be complicated and may do more to obfuscate meaningful relationships in the data than reveal them.