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[–] UnicodeHamSic@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

Gifted kids aren't necessarily smarter than anyone else. They just develop their adult levels of intelligence faster than normal. So there is no guarantee that the amount they will be able to maintain that performance gap going forward. Indeed, they are likely to do worse as they never had to develop the skills to do well in school. So once school gets hard enough for them to need those skills they don't have them.

[–] ultra@discuss.online 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The first 3 are the flag of Romania :) 🇹🇩

Edit: (but reversed)

[–] viralJ@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[–] Baba_booey1@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Getting mature early is a curse

Cuz you are left with a wee little tolerance for biased thoughts and advices

[–] red@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

Ah, the Asperger's Zone

[–] usernamesaredifficul@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (12 children)

IQ is bullshit. The gifted kids were just the kids that had supportive homelives

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[–] girltwink@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Others have touched on this, but ultimately the most vital trait a person can possess is perseverance and a bias for action. I would gladly work with a mediocre person who works relentlessly at improving their skills and figuring out solutions. I don't enjoy working with "gifted" people who have plenty of ideas and few actions to show for it. Intelligence can make you risk averse, and you're useless if you're too afraid to take any action.

Which is the curse, built in risk aversion. 🥴

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[–] be_excellent_to_each_other@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Had the top conversation in third grade. Have spent the rest of my life in the blue zone.

[–] ButtholeSpiders@startrek.website 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I avoided it by coasting, they did testing in kindergarten and I realized fast I didn’t want the attention. Especially being treated like a trophy by my dad.

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[–] TimeSquirrel@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah, the less stupid you are, the more you realize how stupid you really are.

[–] came_apart_at_Kmart@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

was just joking around with a sibling about how some of the most intensely "being highly intelligent is my identity" people from high school with supportive families grew up to be dumb as hell.

the gifted valedictorian became a nurse, then went full "iraq had WMDs, but it was classified" chud, quit the workforce to have 4 children, is a god-tier horder with rooms full of actual garbage, and now is entangled in several MLMs shoveling a spouse's very high income into a blackhole.

the "actually, i have a 160 IQ" inherited a bunch of $$, bought a bunch of vehicles, had 5 kids, went full blown "dance mom" facebook+social media freakshow, and spends most of their effort trying to cultivate inappropriate relationships and fabricate dramas with other married spouses in their neighborhood.

excellence and success are subjective. a life of curiosity, personal enrichment, family, and friends can be excellent without needing accolades or other features of careerist striving. but i'll be damned if some really "smart" people don't take their potential and, in defiance of the odds, turn it into a shit smoothie.

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You sound bitter and cruel. Nursing is a wonderful profession that requires a lot of intelligence. There's nothing wrong with having children. Hoarding is a fucking mental disorder and one of the most intelligent men I know struggled with it.

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