It's quite a beast but I use git-annex for all my file storage and synchronisation purposes.
You can select precisely which files you want to keep in which machine.
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It's quite a beast but I use git-annex for all my file storage and synchronisation purposes.
You can select precisely which files you want to keep in which machine.
Google Drive eliminated its full sync default a long time ago. Ironically, I have the opposite complaint -- I'd like some folders to be synchronized ALL the time, and some NEVER, and Google Drive no longer gives you any direct control over what gets synchronized. It's all controlled by some implacable internal algorithm with no exposed preferences.
Sounds like syncthing might be the ticket for you then. It can be a bit bewildering to set up, but once you do it works incredibly well. And you can ignore/exclude folders and files.
I use syncthing all the time. The ignore file is very powerful and you can get it to ignore whatever you want. The ignore file itself isnt synced across copies, but you can #include a file that is