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Reminder to all: Be respectful when disagreeing. (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by dessalines@lemmy.ml to c/lemmy@lemmy.ml

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Rule #2 is possibly our most important one:

Be respectful. Everyone should feel welcome here.

Learn to disagree without being rude or disrespectful.

It can be difficult sometimes, since western social media thrives on collective outrage, and they knowingly ingrain this into us for years. But please do adhere to this rule, and it will make this place much more enjoyable.

We will not hesitate to issue temp bans (usually a day or two) for those who make everyone's experience unpleasant.Hit the report button if you see this behavior.

Thanks!

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[–] amberSuperMario@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What do you gain from behaving this way? I understand it's easy to get heated online but you're just plainly trying to get under someone's skin for no reason. Maybe you genuinely disagree that calling a stranger "buddy" right at the start of a disagreement is disrespectful, but you're literally just responding derisively to someone in a way that you know they find disrespectful, underneath a post specifically telling you to be respectful in disagreements.

Also, personally I think it's strange to question someone else's understanding of English in regards to calling a stranger "buddy" in a disagreement, seeing as I think most English speakers would understand the passive aggressive attitude of such a thing easily.