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some people trigger me so easily it's scary. Most of them are loud, lazy coworkers that somehow piss me off very easily.

Is this a normal reaction to morons?

it's not like I want to punch them, I'm simply relaxed and work better when I don't have to see them. They slow me down.

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[โ€“] Baggie@lemmy.zip 13 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Finding people annoying isn't the problem, people will always be annoying. If you find yourself exploding over small stuff, it means your mental resources for suppressing and tolerating such things have been depleted. Changing how you think of people can help, but I would examine your lifestyle as a whole and figure out why you aren't able to maintain said mental resources. You may not be resting enough, you may have other problems. It might be hard at first if you've not explored this stuff before, but it's well worth it in the long run.

Don't dismiss physical problems as a possibility either. Something that was surprising to me was blood pressure, apparently it was causing me to fly off the handle at times. Literally all it took was some minor weight loss and eating musli, and suddenly I'm fine again.

[โ€“] vonbaronhans@midwest.social 4 points 20 hours ago

Not necessarily applicable to everybody, but if you find yourself with a short fuse, I highly recommend getting checked out for sleep apnea.

Imagine going to sleep for 8-10 hours a night but always feeling a bit tired and very irritable. Because in reality, you barely sleep at all. That's what sleep apnea does, and I can personally start that, if that's your problem, addressing it is a world changer.