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Boomers spent their lives accumulating stuff. Now their kids are stuck with it.
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this post was submitted on 27 Oct 2024
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I'm taking this as solicited conversation as we are still here. I also assume you are an adult.
I've dealt with this. If they use the wrong pronouns, or otherwise infantilize you, you calmly and respectfully say "mom we've discussed that I'm not going to be spoken to in that way. If you must, I'll be leaving and we can try again tomorrow". Then you get up to leave if they don't correct, and try again tomorrow. No fighting, no yelling.
You do not deserve to be disrespected.
No worries. "No contact" is the only path to a peaceful existence with my mom. I've tried working with her and it doesn't take. Latest example of why I should just lose her number which happened just now: I missed a text from her then got one less than 24 hours later saying
That's gross dude on a dating site behavior. Tbh, if it was important she could have called or emailed.
Anyways, I'm going to treat her like a gross date and lose her number. This isn't the first time she's threatened to go no-contact and I see no reason to protest.
That's a tough one. Good luck dude / dudette / duderino
Thanks. She's blocked everywhere I can think of. I'm going to be a messy feelings blob today and that's ok. I have coffee and chocolate.
It took ~~10~~7 years of low-contact to go to no-contact. I'm not making this choice lightly. She just sucks that much.
And I'm going to steal "duderino". It's mine now.