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Seriously, it's impossible (lemmy.world)
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[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Sooner or later either they stop responding to my summoning or I stop summoning them thinking I'm bothering them too much ...

[–] h_a_r_u_k_i@programming.dev 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I feel this as well. If I don't initiate anything, the friendship will die down since everyone else is "silent" and busy with their life. If I ask too much, I fear that I'm needy and might bother others.

[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

For real. And then there is also the classic 'their lives are probably a bit better without my crappy presence in it, so it's only moral to leave them alone'.