Technology

I don't think this app is problematic. I think it's attempting something interesting. Whether that will work or not will remain to be seen.

As with many "untested" dating app concepts; "May the user(/buyer) beware." My advice to people who doubt the app is to 'avoid it'. There's plenty of valid reasons why you may feel that it won't work. I'm not going to invalidate those feelings nor those experiences.

Enough people will vote with their feet; either by using it, using and quitting it, or not using it at all; that we will probably see within a few years if it works or if it quickly dies and languishes in obscurity.

I certainly wouldn't mind seeing how well things performed in 5 years from now for this concept. I do feel it could help, especially if the boilerplate rejection text is designed intelligently enough. I certainly feel like enough people struggle with mental health that what they are trying to do could be beneficial to encouraging people not to act impulsively. I think providing mental health resources right there in the app may allow rejectees to seek help they need; instead of pinning their hopes on finding a potential mate to address their issues, then lashing out at, or stalking, those potential mates when they're rejected.

To be clear; I do understand that many kinds of scary or bad experiences are a thing for some dating app users. I simply feel that, for those people who have not had such an experience and might feel safe or safer with such a messaging mechanic in a dating app; I do not see the harm in it.

At no point do I recommend this app anyone who feels that it's unsafe to do anything but 'ghost' a bad match-up.

^Please,^ ^do^ ^not^ ^try^ ^to^ ^change^ ^my^ ^mind.^