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[–] Incandemon@lemmy.ca 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Wait wait wait, being abused to the point of mistrusting people so much you don't want to deal with them is now a good thing?

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 0 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

No, it's probably the misogyny

[–] Incandemon@lemmy.ca 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Right, the misogyny of a victim not wanting to interact with the group their victomiser came from. Just like the comic was dealing with, to bad this chain was started from a man cause fuck men I guess?

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Did you not read the abuse story or are you wilfully ignorant?

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 1 points 6 months ago

Yeah that guilt attempt's not gonna work here.

This isn't an appeal for empathy deal. A comic thread on casual, normalised abuse women face on the internet isn't the place to unpack your personal trauma about an abusive parent. You'll notice i didn't bring my abusive mother up either - because it's not the place.

There's a nasty habit in some circles of waiting until someone else speaks and then seizing that opportunity to unload your shit. At its worse it's a bad faith whataboutism tactic designed to derail. At its best it's a maladaptive coping mechanism. Find how to speak on your own.