I still have difficulty accepting this concept from time to time. It’s a real relationship issue, I’m talking in the bedroom. I’m trying to be a gentleman and my wife is telling me please just be straightforward and boring. Be literal. Do not be suggestive. Do not imply. I don’t want to imagine I don’t want creativity. Now, every relationship is different, but I can’t help but feel it unceremonious when she uses the example of ordering at a drive-through as her ideal vision for how the evening should go.

Makes me a bit paranoid but does genuinely seem to be what makes her happy in our case.

[–] bolexforsoup@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 4 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

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[–] activ8r@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 months ago

Which, funny enough, is exactly what she doesn't want to do 😄

Given how she wants direct and straight forward communication, he should probably ask her instead of making any inference in this case.

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