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[โ€“] Wanderer@lemm.ee 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

There are times I absoultely would not have sex with someone sober.

That's pretty much the reason I drink, to be more fun, to let loose and be less socially awkward.

I bet the majority of women I slept with I wouldn't have done it sober. Hell some of then I had sex with twice haha. I really don't understand this argument.

[โ€“] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 6 points 9 months ago

There's been several women in my past that I only slept with because they spent the night pouring drinks in me because I was too shy/socially awkward to make a move. By the logic of this poster (if it was consistent between genders) they raped me, and I don't feel that way at all. There's such a huge gray area around the whole "sex while drunk" thing that makes it really hard to resolve sometimes. Obviously someone getting someone who's previously said "No" drunk in order take advantage of them is wrong but that's hardly the only scenario.