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[–] calypsopub@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago (5 children)

Speaking as a wife and mother, it's likely the only time in her adult life that somebody focused on her wants and needs instead of expecting her to cater to theirs.

[–] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] eskimofry@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Isn't that obvious from the comment?

[–] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world -1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Yes - my point is I do most (almost all) of the cooking and cleaning because I love my partner. In fact I just washed her underwear by hand in the sink. Her needs are meticulously attended to, it's not the default in heterosexual relationships that a woman be emotionally neglected.

[–] spaphy@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Following that thought through fully: and her wants for those two days happened to be dick from a homeless man.

Lol. I get what you're saying though.

[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

There's a difference between a wanderer and a homeless person, a massive difference.

[–] stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 9 months ago

also to be a naked model for a painting

[–] eskimofry@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Sure bro, but when a dude does it you're like "He is my role model!"

edit: Not talking about "you" the commenter, just the double standards of people.

[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 months ago

Maybe you should get a better husband

[–] eskimofry@lemmy.world 0 points 9 months ago

Ignore the incels. They think it's a privilege for women to be even heard.

[–] z00s@lemmy.world -2 points 9 months ago

Sounds like you have a martyr complex