As you may notice, downvotes have been completely off for the last few days. I did this because I couldn't resist the pressure of some friends :/ I still don't know what to do about this. The majority of members probably want it to be completely open. As mods, posters and admins; some think it should be closed, some think it should be restricted (I guess).

I guess there is no solution that makes everyone happy. I realized I don't have admin skills in stressful situations, I'm a fucking stupid lol :D I miss @gabe so much.

lemmyposter212 suggested "fuzzy votes" or something that can work for us too. I think I'll just ghost this issue for a while.

Donations

As you know, all our donation accounts have been closed. Since it was my first time opening a site in the NSFW area, I had no experience. I reviewed some adult donation sites but most of them were shady. Honestly I couldn't trust them.

There are only coins now. But I guess most people don't want to deal with coins. It is because I didn't get any donations about 4 months now :D Those sent from Github Sponsor or Patreon were also returned to donators as well. I received $200-ish donations so far.

We are currently the 2nd largest instance in Lemmy. After lemmy.world, we're bigger than lemmy.ml and lemm.ee! I don't think it will work this way anymore. On an annual basis, I need to spend a month's salary for Lemmy NSFW.

Does anyone have an idea to solve this problem?

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[–] BlackSkinnedJew@lemmynsfw.com 46 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (3 children)

My humble opinions are:

Downvotes are there for a reason and they should be allowed to everyone who want to downvote something they don't like I don't see the point of restricting it.

If you don't get enough donations you should try to cut costs,maybe purging old inactive stuff or optimizing the server resources usage/downgrading unused resources of the server..

I use Lemmy over an Android app so I really don't give a flying fuck about web interfaces of Lemmy.

Pray&Luck 🙏🤞.

[–] lobster_fowl@lemmynsfw.com 29 points 9 months ago

I struggle with downvotes for my tastes vs the communal good.

If I'm scrolling through gonewild and I see a post from a gender I'm not into, do I downvote because I don't like it?

No, because that punishes someone else (who's putting themselves out there and contributing) for my tastes, and it doesn't actually improve the algorithm of what gets served to me.

If it's spam, or a photo of someone's thumb wearing a tutu, or off topic, or violating a rule then I'll downvote (this is pretty rare though).

I also usually block posters who aren't to my tastes, but that feels too coarse grained because maybe they post in the asklemmy or something with great content there.

[–] Radovic@lemmynsfw.com 8 points 9 months ago

If ever there was a user whose existence argued against the ability to downvote thou art the man.

[–] yay@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 9 months ago

We will do some hacky things to cut costs. This also poses some risks. We'll see.