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How do you learn to live without someone? (lemmygrad.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by sovietsnake@lemmygrad.ml to c/comradeship@lemmygrad.ml

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I kind of ended my relationship with me now ex this year, I'm into another relationship, it was just a lot of shit, poverty, mental illness, other stuff combined, it was absolutely the worst time for when we tried that.

I love the person with whom I am now, it's nothing related to them, but fuck, Jesus Christ, some times the memories just kill you, it was a lot of years, it was a lot of things, how do I even exist after this? I know I'm not a person who know very well how to get over the past, but this kind of thing just feels like something that will accompany me to my grave.

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[–] DankZedong@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I was in a very troubled relationship for 7 years before I got with my now gf. It was violent, nasty, abusive and we both went through a hell. We broke up and I spent a year alone before I got into my current relationship. At times I thought my world ended but eventually I started feeling as if my new life was just starting. I am still figuring things out about myself and my previous relationship. It takes a lot of time to heal and to move on. But eventually you will. My current relationship is a million times better. It helps me heal. It gives me new perspectives on life.

It's okay to be confused or feel bad from time to time. It's part of the process. Be alone if you need to. Be happy with your current partner. You went through a lot and you can take all the time you need to recover and move on.

[–] Rasm635u@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 1 year ago

I'm sorry you had to endure that but am glad you have moved on