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[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 99 points 1 year ago (11 children)

I have been with wife almost thirty years. I wish it had occurred to me to ask this so many times before saying something. So many times.

[–] scytale@lemm.ee 57 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I agree. Having a natural tendency to solve a problem makes us want to fix it immediately but sometimes it's not the answer, when they just want to vent or someone to listen to.

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