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[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 20 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (19 children)

It's nice to look good. The only reason men don't wear makeup is because it's not socially acceptable. However, lifting weights is the most common "beauty adjustment" for men and while it has other benefits than looking better, that's most of the reason most men do it.

Some beauty standards are cultural, but some are also simply biological, something everyone responds to. Clear skin for example, which makeup provides, is one such example of a natural attractiveness symbol, which is why it's so universal across almost all cultures.

How much and in which ways one wants to make themselves look better is something everyone needs to figure out for themselves. But wanting to and acting on it is not bad in itself, so I wouldn't shame anyone for putting on makeup, same as I wouldn't for someone not using it.

[–] crusa187@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago (7 children)

The only reason men don’t…because it’s not socially acceptable

Consider that there are other perfectly valid reasons men may not choose to wear makeup, such as not wanting to apply artificial / chemical-laden cosmetological garbage to our natural skin. Many women make this same choice, and they are all incredibly beautiful regardless.

True beauty goes far beyond these vain and superficial layers.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

True beauty goes far beyond these vain and superficial layers.

Just because someone chooses to wear makeup doesn't mean that they're vain and superficial.

[–] Saro@lazysoci.al -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

superficial

adj. (anatomy, relational, often with to) Closer to the surface of the body; especially, situated or occurring on the skin or immediately beneath it.

superficial

adj. – Concerned with or comprehending only what is apparent or obvious; shallow.

There is more than one definition for the word.

Context clues in the original comment ("superficial" used in conjunction with the word "vain") gives way to this particular definition.

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