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If so, was it polled somewhere?

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[–] Sharkwellington@lemmy.one 23 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I genuinely would like to understand what you guys at hexbear are about but every time I poke my head into that instance you guys are "dunking" every other instance with language nobody else understands. It's very alienating.

[–] dolphin@hexbear.net 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lol that's fair. We've developed a pretty insular culture over the past three years and I can see how it's hard to decipher.

[–] yuri@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (5 children)

you guys are also like, just huge dicks without provocation. like all the fucken time. 99% of what i see from hexbear users is either condescension or outright hostility.

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (8 children)

honestly it's a pretty friendly instance all told, we just have p strong feelings about politics and bigotry

and admittedly a lot of us have little patience for the worst among you bc we deal with that shit permeating society at every level on a constant basis

[–] ZodiacSF1969@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Oh, so you understand how everyone else feels about you then.

[–] RuthlessCriticism@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Yeah, cognitive dissonance hurts, so you respond aggressively, perfectly understandable, if disappointing.

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[–] SeventyTwoTrillion@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

usually how conversations go is this

  1. I see a reply to a post by a liberal stating a point which we regularly debunk

  2. to help them see why they might be wrong, I politely, and in good faith, though often with a little force, push back on it and explain why they are incorrect

  3. they then smugly and condenscendingly reply with a sentence like "Oh, so you've come along with your CCP/Kremlin propaganda now / Oh great, the Hexbear horde has arrived / Actually, it's much more complicated than that [refuses to elaborate] / Actually, you're wrong because of [link to wikipedia]"

  4. we then start dunking given that they aren't operating in good faith

perhaps reddit's typical style of "debate", where you smugly reply thought-terminating cliches and decontextualized quotes at each other while being variously awarded and downvoted, is more harmful and damaging to actual discussion than our style of "You're wrong, here's why you're wrong with a bunch of references included, hell, most of them are to western media because if I don't then you'll start screeching 'CHINESE CCP XI JINPING PROPAGANDA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHH' at us"

additionally, we have no downvotes, and haven't for three years, because it just fosters anonymized disagreement and even harrassment without any constructive points being made. no matter how often you remind people, no matter how good their intention, downvote systems online always devolve into "I dislike you and/or the point you're making and I'm not going to explain why. fuck you." disagreement on Hexbear is done through posting and replying, and because of that, it's by far the healthiest online community I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot.

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago
[–] Egon@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I see a lot of hexbear users be provocative, but I've yet to see it without reason. It's in response to someone else acting in bad faith. When you see someone act rude, take a step back and consider why they are acting rude.
Not to say we don't have users that are too quick on the draw of the ppb, but your website certainly has cantankerous assholes as well. Every site has.
Hexbear just has an incredibly low tolerance of debatebros, smuglords and bigotry, which I would say has fostered a site culture that allows for a wide variety of opinions to be shared, a deep analysis of current event and which is a safe space for LGBTQ+ members - our modteam is majority LGBTQ+.

[–] Staines@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Hexbear - "that's true, I see how our culture can be hard to decipher"

Lemmylib - "you guys are huge dicks without provocation"

Hexbear - oh well fuck you then :)

Lemmylib - "see, so hostile!"

If we respond to people being needlessly aggro with quip derision it's "so uncivil!" If we respond to people in good faith by trying to explain our differing views it's "wow im not going to read that!"

So what should we do?

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[–] SpookyGenderCommunist@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I genuinely would like to understand what you guys at hexbear are about

Well, I'd be more than happy to have a good faith discussion with you. No dunking, I promise 🙏

[–] Sharkwellington@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago

You've caught me going into a busy Labor Day weekend but sure, I'll think up some questions to ask.

[–] Venus@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We're literally just communists. Read any introductory text to communism and 99% of what we say will make sense in context.

[–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

"Donald Trump is a liberal"

Break this down.

[–] Nama@hexbear.net 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'll oversimplify a bit, but here you go. In economic terms, liberalism is a market oriented economy, and the current iteration of neoliberalism is marked by social welfare cuts and tax cuts for the rich with "trickle down" effect in mind (allegedly). That ideology is shared by both the democratic and republican parties. The difference between communists and liberals in the sense the word is most often used, is that economic approach, and from that perspective both liberals and conservatives are "liberal".

Now the common use of the word is a bit different, but that's almost exclusively US from what I can tell. Hexbear is also international though, and liberal is a common term for right wingers where I'm from for example.

Hope I could help.

[–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 3 points 1 year ago (7 children)

"The colloquialisms from the place I am directly talking about don't matter as much as this one I am using, everyone who disagrees is propagandized"

This is what I'm seeing when I read your comment. I can call the sky green all damn day, that doesn't make it green, you dip.

[–] krolden@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago

Really? I see them answering the question you asked.

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wow what an insightful response to a user answering your question in good faith! I cannot imagine why you would ever be treated with derision or condescention

[–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You reap what you sow. I figured a tankie would know about planting things but I suppose I was wrong again.

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago

Funny because the other user sowed a civil and good-faith response. I'm used to that resulting in a response in good faith as well, and yet here you are with shit in your diapers acting like a pissbaby. Must be something in the soil

[–] Staines@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Most civil and good faith lemmylib.

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago

Exactly the same as a chud saying college biology is fake pseudoscience because of the biology they were taught in 5th grade.

In any decent political science education in the states you will also see these definitions. You can stop having a tantrum about it.

[–] Staines@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

Americans can call the sky green as much as they want. In the rest of the world, Liberalism = Liberalism, not "democrat".

Liberals are people that believe in liberalism, which can be summed up as "everyone has the individual right to be an asshole, even if it fucks everyone else over".

[–] ReadFanon@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago

This isn't a colloquialism. This is a basic definition used within political science.

If you're going to talk politics on a serious level then using the terminology of political science matters and, if that's too much of a stretch, then at least avoid colloquial terms which contradict the terms used in political science.

[–] sawne128@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Let me oversimplify even more. Donald Trump upholds the American Revolution which turned British America into a liberal republic.

[–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think Donald Trump is a communist. He takes care of his own, disregards the status quo and talks mad shit about libs just like hexbears.

So it must be true, Donald Trump is a communist liberal.

Suck it westoids.

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

The politics understander has logged on

[–] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Locke was a classical liberal. Trump is a neoliberal. This is very simple.

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[–] SpookyGenderCommunist@hexbear.net 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Liberalism has a couple of different definitions. The one you're thinking of is the one in US politics where "Liberal" is synonymous with "Left'. This isn't how it's being used here though.

Liberalism, as a broad ideological trend that came out of the enlightenment, contains within it, Conservatism. Conservatism was theorized by people like Edmund Burke who, seeing that the previous feudal hierarchy was dying off, sought to preserve it, at least as much as was possible, by accepting Liberal notions of property rights and capitalism.

So, instead of a social hierarchy being ordained by God, it's decided by the market, and social conflict is meditated through the liberal, Lockean, Republic.

So when we call Trump a liberal, we mean it in this broad sense. He's still a conservative, but conservatism is a subset of capital L Liberalism.

This is in contrast to Leftism, which also contains a lot of things within it, but breaks from a lot of the philosophical assumptions that undergird Liberalism.

This is actually helpful, thank you for this.

[–] WhyEssEff@hexbear.net 17 points 1 year ago

liberalism is the ideology of capitalism. donald trump is a capitalist. donald trump is a liberal. easy.

[–] sawne128@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is there anything confusing about that statement?

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, otherwise they would not have asked it. We all learn something new everyday, and what's old for you is novel for others

[–] sawne128@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Uh, I think I was right to be suspicious of their good faith.

Maybe, maybe not. But that statement is going to be deeply confusing to the average American for whom "liberal" is synonymous with "left".

[–] Doubledee@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly your best bet is probably to do some reading first, unfortunately. A lot of Hexbear dialect is that way because it's tied to concepts that come from books and thinkers we're broadly familiar with.

If you're more into video stuff you could try this guy. I think he's pretty approachable.

Actually if you went into the megathreads and asked most people would probably give you suggestions too. We are fiesty but in my experience we also like to be helpful to people with questions.

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[–] AOCapitulator@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

If you ask good faith questions and give context for why "Hey, I'm a liberal and I don't understand X could you explain what you mean?"

You WILL get excellent engagement and people will give you very good answers

its easy, and if you genuinely want to learn give it a shot

[–] Egon@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

New tagline dropped @CARCOSA@hexbear.net

Seriously though you are more than welcome to ask, I would recommend the news mega. If you ask questions in gold faith there's a wealth of users willing to interact with you

[–] epicspongee@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

To be clear in the dunking threads folks are not usually engaging in good faith with us. When I was on another server and replied with actual questions to stuff everyone was incredibly nice to me and explained stuff super well. Can agree though that folks can see dunking as alientating. I promise though if you can get past that it's one of the friendliest communities I've found on the web.