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[–] n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How to defeat a slur, take it as your own. It's simply as easy as that.

Growing up I was fat as fuck, people made fun of me all the time. One day I decided it was enough, I started making fun of myself for being fat, suddenly everyone left me alone because it no longer got the response they were trying to get.

Ignoring / getting angry is what they want, turn around and happily scream yeah I'm queer, ya looking for a good time? (For example) ya know what's gonna happen? Their gonna start stammering and come up with another way to bother you, and when you don't give in and don't show a reaction they will end up storming away angrily. Then you have something to laugh at for the rest of the day.

What the fuck do you think pride parades are for?

My grandfather got caught downtown Toronto in one and spent 2 hours throwing slurs. Ya think a single person in that parade cared?

[–] SCB@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

spent 2 hours throwing slurs

Lmao "Grandpa how was your day?"

"Pretty good actually. I spent 2 hours shouting slurs at strangers"