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How to deal with bullies? (lemmy.world)
submitted 1 year ago by medvedev@lemmy.world to c/autism@lemmy.world
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I'm 13y old that was recently diagnosed with ASD. School is starting soon, they surely haven't changed nor a little bit. They're just bunch of idiots that like to express their pain and anger on others. Or just fool them for fun. Reporting them does nothing (have been doing that for almost 6 years). It's like reporting system in CP (Club Penguin), no one is even sure if it even does anything. I never do anything to them, I just stare at them or do something else. That I have blank face or sound calm dosen't mean that I'm calm. When I answer in short sentences that either means that I don't have inspiration to talk or that I hold lots of emotions in me. And, about blank face... I ALMOST ALWAYS HAVE BLANK FACE. I almost never express my emotions on my face. So, should I just throw a tantrum without caring for consequences or act tought. Does entire community of ASDers need to act like douchebags just to not be an easy target for bullying?!

P.S I've posted this in c/autism because I feel like this problem is deeply tied with my personality. -medvedev-

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[–] Steve@communick.news 4 points 1 year ago

I'm not sure it's a good option, but I'll tell you how I dealt with it.

I tried to respond in an unexpected way. Specificaly, a way that robbed them of their pleasure for doing it. They want to make me to feel bad. I'd show them I was far better at that than they ever would be.

Maybe I doubled down on their insult, explaining to them it was worse than they thought. Or I'd start talking to them like they're my therapist, unloading whatever else was depressing me. Stuff about my parents, or siblings, teachers, whatever. As long as it was related to what they said, they new they wouldn't get what they wanted from saying that in the future.

This might not be in your wheelhouse. It might not work for anyone today. But it was effective for me roughly 30 years ago.