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To the chinese greeting "Have you eaten yet?" as I understood it is fine to just answer factually what you have eaten, it could even be a decent start for small talk. Much better than "How are you?".
I was just thinking this morning about what are we actually trying to say in America with the "How are you?" fake question so that I can try inserting that instead and I think it's really like the Russian hello, Здравствуйте (zdrast-vyui'tye) which literally translates to "Have health!". We're not really asking how someone is, we are trying to say "I hope you're well"
I could see myself being able to apply this concept in like a retail situation by saying "Hi, hope you're having a nice day 🙂" when I come up to the counter instead of "hi how are you?"