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Like most other people here, I originally came here from reddit. Ive been having a blast so far, and I much prefer the forum-style of this. After about a week of using Lemmy I realized there was something intrinsic to reddit that Lemmy doesnt have. And I wont miss it. Too many people on reddit were way too horny. I was really annoying, but Lemmy seems way more chill. Plus its refreshing knowing that the people on here arent all bots.

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[–] shufflerofrocks@beehaw.org 35 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Lol, I kinda agree, which is somewhat related to another thing I won't miss: The teenagers.

The lockdown + reddit's new direction of becoming more like fb/insta has drastically increased the number of teenagers on reddit. I hate it. It's like an eternal summer-reddit.

The discussions get crappy and stale, they don't follow rediquette, they are insufferably naive but aggressive with their opinions due to twitterification of their online socialisation. and so.fricking.horny. TIFU and Askreddit almost completely became horny fantasy posting, and I blame the teenagers for it.

God I feel like a terminally-online grumpy old man for saying it, but UGH interacting with teens online is like a human rights violation.

[–] mustyOrange@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago

Hey redditors, what is the sexiest sex you've ever sexed sexually?

[–] PascalPistachios@beehaw.org 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Reminding myself that the person posting the worst opinions I've seen in my life is likely a 14 year-old with unrestricted access to the internet from birth is the only thing keeping me sane.

[–] AdmiralSnackbar@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

I've never taken the time to think about it like this, but it would explain so fucking much.

[–] eleanorOpossum@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Reddit has always been full of teenagers. But it's gotten "worse" over the past few years. Or maybe I (we've?) just gotten older. I don't remember reddit being like this 10 years ago; but I was 10 years younger, and a teen too.

[–] shufflerofrocks@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I get it, I was a teen and I browsed reddit too, and enjoyed it a lot.

I definitely think it's gotten worse. Teens used to be more of lurkers in my experience, but that isn't the case anymore especially because reddit is encouraging teens to treat the site more like twitter, and rewarding mindless engagement. I don't remember the content being this mindless, or the teenagers being this vocal.

Or maybe we're just grumpy old people now idk anymore man

[–] aaronbieber@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

I, too, miss Usenet.

[–] knowledge-phoenix@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago

Why won't teenagers come here along with everyone else?

[–] skatergirl69420@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

yeah ……… i have found various subs infiltrated with people as young as 13 and it shocks me. its honestly extremely dangerous for themselves to be exploring reddit at that age but also like dude, i absolutely do not want to be engaging with anyone under the age of 20 MINIMUM

[–] shufflerofrocks@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

I don't mind them being on reddit at that age. I just wish they knew when to keep their mouth shut - 90% of the bad discussions I saw in the last three years could've been solved with a 10sec search.

[–] V4uban@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago
[–] owl@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Grumpy old men FTW! Together we will be less grumpy... I hope