As someone who was in the same shoes as the person you reacted to: I was absolutely repulsed. It's the main reason why I waited until my late thirties to get a partner for life.

When I got the slightest whiff of the men being with me because he liked that I was short / skinny / childlike that was the end of the relationship. It's not only superficial, but also highly questionable to find your partner attractive because of these traits.

[–] BraBraBra@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That's absolutely nuts. You think it's akin to pedophilia to find an adult woman attractive. If only you ever actually read up on what exactly pedophilia is I think you would've saved yourself a lot of trouble. It is exclusively an attraction to children, it has absolutely nothing to do with being attracted to petite adult women.

Like can you explain what exactly is the moral delimma in finding an adult petite woman attractive?

It's superficial to find your partner attractive because of their traits? That makes absolutely no sense. Finding literally anyone in the world attrative is inherently superficial, that's how it works.