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[–] kool_newt@lemm.ee 45 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

I find myself to be a stereotypical Lemmy user. I'm trans, (anarcho-) communist, a programmer and Linux engineer.

I'm older, I transitioned (ugh I hate that word) about 2 decades ago. I got into computers consciously and very intentionally. I knew I'd need to support myself soon and spent a good amount of time thinking what industries or companies might be willing to hire someone like me (this was even before trans people had employment rights in California!). I chose computers because I felt like it was an industry where someone might hire me, I could make enough to survive and pay for surgery, and because it seemed one where my co-workers would be less likely to beat me up or kill me.

When it comes to communism, I have a hunch that being trans forces you to think about society and why you are not accepted, who is causing your troubles and why. It seems apparent why someone so low on the social acceptance ladder as a trans person would be repelled by exploitation based zero-sum systems and attracted to systems that would allow them to survive and thrive.

Linux seemed just fundamentally awesome to me. You mean people could just choose to get together, coordinate, and build one of the most complex things to exist on the planet and give it away for free? Sign me up! I think Lemmy and the Fediverse are attractive for similar reasons.

[–] Kribensis@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

Thanks for this. It was very well-reasoned, and gave me a perspective I hadn't thought of before.

[–] Lilith02@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I was going to say because Linux is a big community on lemmy. And as we all know, Linux users are all either trans or femboys. /s

[–] hikaru755@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I transitioned (ugh I hate that word)

Slightly off topic but I'm curious, why do you hate that word and is there different wording that you'd prefer?

[–] grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not the person you're replying to, but my guess is that "transition" implies some sort of inner journey, but transitioning is often really about changing how the world views you. You're still the woman, man, or non-binary entity you always were, you're just making changes to encourage/force everyone else to see you the same way.

[–] kool_newt@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

This makes sense, transition also implies I changed from one thing to another, which is how it appears externally I suppose but for me it was more like being let out of a prison where personal expression suddenly became possible. I didn't change so much as people just started being able to seeing the whole me for the first time.

[–] kool_newt@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm not sure, I just cringe every time I have to say it. I guess it's just kinda like referring to one's puberty as "blossoming" and feeling cringe when talking to friends and you're like, "...before I blossomed ...". In that case you'd more likely say "when I was a kid", but I don't want to say "when I was a dude" lol.

It's just a personal thing, no issues with the word or those who use it/like it. I don't have a word I prefer.

[–] hikaru755@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

Makes sense, thanks for elaborating :)

[–] tristar@lemmyfly.org 3 points 1 year ago

Yeah, that's the reason. Trans girls just often happen to be good at IT and leftist.