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Most of the romance anime I've seen are based on a high school setting or something similar.

They were good and all but all have this typical format with the usual shenanigans like Love triangle, beach and fireworks festival episodes, useless love interests that have a shelf life of a hamburger... Etc.

And the memorable ones have me feeling nostalgia for memories I've never even had. And in some cases its almost like waking up after a fever dream but with chest pain.

P.S - From the top of my head- the only grown up romance setting I can think of is Wotakoi. Maybe it's time I venture more into K-dramas for the romance, I remember seeing one named "Twentyfive twentyone" which was absolutely amazing.

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[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

I think Bloom Into You is good. However, you'll need to switch to the manga halfway through since the anime is incomplete (and will probably never be finished).

[–] sleet01@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The Ancient Magus's Bride is a nice slow-burn romance/adventure series that skips a lot of tropes and isn't in any kind of rush. The setup is pretty uncomfortable, though.

[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The first few episodes were so uncomfortable I couldn't get through them. :(

[–] sleet01@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 hours ago

It's definitely a series that rewards persistence. Watching Chose come into her own and grow got me hooked.

[–] Comexs@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)
  • Re: Life
  • Spice and Wolf
  • Gosick
  • Tsuki ga Kirei
  • Seishun Buta Yarou wa Bunny Girl Senpai no Yume wo Minai
  • Sakura-sou no Pet na Kanojo
  • High Score Girl
  • Kaichou wa Maid-sama!
  • Boku no Kokoro no Yabai Yatsu
  • Kimi no Na wa

Re: Life and Spice and Wolf are my top recommendations the other are less of what I think your looking for but still want to mention them since I felt they did something different to warrant them being on this list.

I would like to put some more experimental titles, but I'll abstain for now.

[–] gunpachi@lemmings.world 1 points 1 day ago

So many good ones here. I've watched a few from the ones you mentioned. All of them I pretty much enjoyed a ton.

  1. Re Life
  2. Bunny girl senpai
  3. Sakura-sou no pet na Kanojo
  4. Boku no kokoro no yabai yatsu
  5. Kimi no nawa

Re life, kmi no nawa and bunny girl senapi gave me depression for a short while back in the day. Boko no Kokoro no yabai yatsu was probably one of the better ones to come out in recent times.

I also think I watched the first 2 episodes of Kaicho wa Maid Sama a long time ago... I almost forgot it existed.

Hiscore girl, tsuki ga kirei and Spice & wolf are in my never ending watch list, thanks for reminding me again. As for gosik, it's my first time hearing about it... Will check it out tho.

Also please go ahead and comment the experimental ones you mentioned, I think I'll find something interesting

Also my apologies for not mentioning the ones I already watched in my post.

[–] elekitty@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Plastic Memories is a personal favourite.

  • It's a work/office setting, so "grown up"
  • It explores some sci-fi, human condition themes and as the name suggests, about "memories" which funny you should mention about nostalgia etc.
  • I thought it was a real tearjerker (or maybe I'm a softie)
  • It's released 2015, so you might find it dated?
[–] gunpachi@lemmings.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Oh nice. Sounds like it's the kind of show I'm looking for. Thank you.

[–] AsimovIV@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 day ago

Nana is about a typical 'head filled with romance' type of protagonist but with a more mature take. It also has amazing music too.

[–] fckreddit@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oregairu could be something you could like. While it's setting is typical, it is much more atypical in how it deals with the romance.

[–] gunpachi@lemmings.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Oregairu was really well executed. I really liked it. I kinda feel bad for the second girl with the pink hair ( I think her name was Yuigahama? ).

Oh man I feel old now.... Its been what? 4 or 5 years since it got it's final season anime adaptation huh.. I was watching it while it was still airing.

On a completely unrelated note, I think it was last year when I watched an anime called "The terrors in my heart" it was one of the memorable ones I've seen as of late. I just remembered it when you mentioned Oregairu for some reason.

[–] ReluctantZen@feddit.nl 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Other than Wotakoi, the only ones I can think of, and are worthwhile imo, are 'Science Fell In Love, So I Tried To Prove It', 'Astro Note' and 'Recovery Of An MMO Junkie' though the latter 2 aren't really full on romances.

I can think of a few manga though, if that's okay with you:

  • Manga by Yamada Kintetsu (Sweat and Soap, Telework Yotabanashi, Kasane to Subaru)
  • More Than Lovers, Less Than Friends
  • She Loves To Cook, She Loves To Eat
  • I Have A Crush At Work (currently also being adapted into an anime, but only 1 ep is out, so...)
[–] gunpachi@lemmings.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hey thanks for all these suggestions. I'll check out all of them. I'll add those manga to my reading list.

[–] ReluctantZen@feddit.nl 1 points 1 day ago

No worries. Have fun.

You made me check out Telework Yotabanashi again and I found out that there apparently was an official translation released, so thanks to you too haha

[–] ScoopMcPoops@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

You might like Servant x Service, it's not explicitly a romance anime, more of a comedy but it has some romance sprinkled in from what I remember. It focuses on a a few employees working for the local government at a DMV style office where they deal with customers all day. Light hearted and definitely relatable if you've ever worked a service job.

Golden Time was pretty good when I saw it 12 years ago. It's a college setting so a lot of high school tropes are gone and the characters act more like young adults. I wouldn't say you need to watch it, but it's not bad.

Ore Monogatari or "My Love Story" is a favorite for me and my partner. It is a high school setting, but the characters and the pacing make it worth it. If you give it a shot just make it to episode 3 before writing it off.

You probably wouldn't like Toradora but it's highly regarded. High school setting again with a lot of clichés, but the clichés are used really well, and make up for the fact that you've probably already seen the stereotypes play out before.

[–] gunpachi@lemmings.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

From the ones you've mentioned, I've watched Golden time. It was pretty good.

Ore monogatati and Torodora were in my watchlist for a long time, I almost forgot about them until I read your comment.

[–] mrfriki@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The Garden of Words. It a a short movie but, as far as anime goes it is what best fits your description.

[–] gunpachi@lemmings.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Its a Makoto Shinkai movie right? I've seen it a few years ago, I liked it.

[–] Smash@lemmy.self-hosted.site 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Watch Itazura na Kiss

And Strawberry Panic, which has a more mature story (but still plays in highschool)

[–] gunpachi@lemmings.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've not heard about both of them before. I'll check these out. Thanks

[–] Smash@lemmy.self-hosted.site 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ahh, and maybe also Saekano, which is one of my favorite animes of all times (make sure to watch the movie at the end)

[–] gunpachi@lemmings.world 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Is that the one where the main character tries to develop a girl into an ideal heroine for his novel or something along those lines ?

I didn't completely watch that show, so I'll check it out some time. Thanks for reminding me tho.

[–] Smash@lemmy.self-hosted.site 1 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

Yeah, a bunch of young talents try to develop tthe perfect visual novel. It can feel slow at times but the payoff when watching the final movie at the end is amazing.

[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

[off topic]

The Thin Man movies. Classic Hollywood B+W with a pair of adults having a great time solving a murder mystery.

[–] baccano@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Nick and Nora Charles are mine and my wife's relationship goals.

[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 4 points 2 days ago

May I suggest more stable and mature role models.

Morticia and Gomez.