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[–] ech@lemm.ee 14 points 15 hours ago

No diagnosis, but at least similar issues. Best metaphor I've come up with is that it's like trying to push two magnets together that are the wrong way around. Visually it looks simple as can be, but the invisible forces preventing it feel impossible to overcome.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 37 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

Why don’t you just sleep earlier /s

[–] pemptago@lemmy.ml 3 points 10 hours ago

Well, it can take 2-3 hours to brush and floss if I think, "I'll glance at my phone," in between.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 27 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Hey now. I wasted my whole day doing pointless stupid shit, so I need those extra hours after midnight to do my pointless stupid shit.

[–] Szyler@lemmy.world 11 points 17 hours ago

I feel personally attacked. I just had a 2 hour nap because I did this yesterday.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 8 points 18 hours ago

It’s either that or a sudden frantic focus on important tasks but it’s already 1am.

Or an urge to work on something meaningful but you had one singular drink and you can’t focus but have the motivation lol

[–] ctenidium@lemmy.world 14 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

revenge bedtime procrastination

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 4 points 18 hours ago

报复熬夜 every night

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 12 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

But also "ooh, shiny" and proceeding to spend a few days obsessed with shiny new things.

[–] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago

But just a few days, and not in a way to be able to capitalise upon it

[–] LouNeko@lemmy.world 10 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

The thing is, if we could do all the things that could fix our life, we could also do all the things that would make it worse. Better to not do anything it all.

[–] neatobuilds@lemmy.today 6 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Except some of those things that make it worse are fun so I'll just do a little bit of that this time

[–] LouNeko@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago

How else are we supposed to endure...

[–] peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 9 points 18 hours ago

Oh come on it's too early for this reality shit, I want to laugh

[–] OpenStars@piefed.social 9 points 18 hours ago
[–] hihi24522@lemm.ee 3 points 15 hours ago

It’s the start of the semester, and this is me. Unfortunately I’m feeling it even while on my meds :( I think I’ve become tolerant to them.

[–] Pxtl@lemmy.ca 5 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

for everybody reading this who haven't tried them already:

The meds help a lot. Stop overthinking it and just get the meds.

[–] tdawg@lemmy.world 12 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I mean. Get diagnosed first. It might be something else

[–] Pxtl@lemmy.ca 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

This is !ADHD@lemmy.world, I kind of figured people would join this sub after a diagnosis.

[–] tdawg@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago

the internet is full of people who self diagnose