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I feel so tired after half a day of work, never mind working a full day. After a couple of weeks of this, when i get home, i have no energy left for anything. Even things I usually enjoy.

Everything feels like a drag at that point and I can’t seem to do anything to improve this.

Doing this for a few more months usually ends up with me having to quit my job or i will get so tired and sick I can’t do anything anymore.

How to deal with this?

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[–] Murdoc@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago

I'd recommend reading this article about authenticity: https://www.meticulon.com/neurodiversity-celebration-week-2024/ It explains a lot about how little things that NTs take for granted can be exhausting for ND people, particularly at work.

[–] blahsay@lemmy.world -1 points 4 months ago

Visit weedtime

[–] AlexisFR@jlai.lu -1 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Welcome to being an adult!

Most people either figure it out or look for an easier job.

[–] NationProtons@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 months ago

I don’t feel like my job was particularly difficult though. Usually the tasks are quite simple. But organization, prioritizing and meetings with others can strain my energy fast.

I’m not sure I could play videogames for 8 hours per day if I only could get a single break at noon.

I would be tired and unhappy all the same (even though it would be a bit better, since I can actually choose what games to play. At work I don’t really have any choice in my tasks)

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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee -4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Increase your working memory capacity by playing 60-minute sessions of working memory games on Lumosity.

Absolute best thing an autistic person can do for mental/social fatigue.

[–] NationProtons@sh.itjust.works 1 points 4 months ago

Does this actually transfer to real life situations though?

I found one of the best ways to improve my working memory for certain tasks, it’s just to do those tasks.

Like, I used to be really bad at cooking, but in the past months, I’ve been preparing meals every day. And I noticed it’s easier to figure out what things to combine from the fridge, keep everything in my head and work on preparing the parts without having to rely too much on timers and recipes to know when and how to prepare things.

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