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I have a friend who’s alcohol consumption has gotten out of control. Me and his other friends/family are planning an intervention and so I’ve been doing a lot of research/reading on the topic.

NEVER and I mean NEVER have I seen so many fucking ads for alcohol in my LIFE. Instagram? 15 ads in a half hour of scrolling reels. YouTube? Ads. Google results? Ads. Twitter? Ads.

It’s fucking everywhere and it’s SICK. I’m researching how to help someone stop drinking and I’m getting inundated with ads for anything from gin, beers, vodkas and more. I can’t even imagine having an alcohol issue and trying to find help for myself with the web being this way.

It’s fucking sick.

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[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

Install uBlock Origin. Ads are a legitimate malware threat.

[–] Shelbyeileen@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

I know this is four months old, but I'm getting nonstop gambling ads after googling how to block them and its driving me insane. I hate that I'm not alone in ad hell... I've lost people because of gambling addiction and it is RIDICULOUS that there isn't a way to block ads for things that are dangerous, if they become addictive.

[–] MinekPo1@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I have, through a mixture of ad blockers, privacy friendly 3rd party front ends, choice of services and living in a city which banned billboard ads, pretty much stopped seeing ads. And I observed I feel annoyance, when I do bump into an ad.

[–] Albercht@lemm.ee 1 points 4 months ago

You can disable targeted ads on most platforms, which will make the ads you see less relevant.

However, you’re right—ads for alcohol shouldn’t appear when searching for information on quitting drinking. I recall a liquor store offering discounts on drinks in exchange for the sobriety tokens people receive.

[–] Boozilla@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Shit like this is why I use ad blockers and route all my home network traffic through a Pi Hole.

If Google gets their way with their evil "Web Environment Integrity" bullshit this is going to get so. Much. Worse.

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You can turn off targeted ads on most platforms so the ads you get are useless.

But you are right, when searching for anti drinking info ads for drinking shouldn't appear. I seem to remember there was a alcohol shop that was giving discounts for drinks if you gave them your sober token things you get.

[–] Ubermeisters@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A lot of bars will give you free drinks if you give them your sobriety coin from AA.

[–] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Unethical life pro tips: visit AA meetings to get sobriety coins and exchange them for free drinks.

[–] Ubermeisters@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You can probably just buy the coins online lmao

[–] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But they would not be free.

[–] Ubermeisters@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 year ago

AA sourced sobriety coins cost a LOT trust me. You dont ever want to have to find out. Not that they charge you for the coins (they do not), but whatever landed you in there likely cost you more than some online coins would, is my point.

[–] Hillock@kbin.social -3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I would say the Baader-Meinhof phenomenon plays a bigger role here. Alcohol ads are super common and wouldn't be surprised if you just zoned them out before.

I am not going to deny that searching for anything alcohol related can increase the amount but I highly doubt it would be by such a large margin.

[–] Radio_717@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I searched for husavara images once because we were watching an old b sci-fi movie where they dressed one up with crappy “prosthetics” but didn’t paint it and I wanted to prove that’s what it was.

I got huskavara and John Deere ads all over my socials pretty much exclusively the next day and extremely frequently for a week afterwards. There’s just no way those were there prior to that search. I turned off targeted ads and never saw them again.

I believe op when he says he was inundated with them.

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[–] JoYo@lemmy.ml -4 points 1 year ago

that's why I pay to remove ads.

[–] FReddit@lemmy.world -4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You can't help anyone with a substance abuse problem.

They either choose to fix themselves or they die.

[–] urist@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

OP and others are reaching out to a friend to show they care. They want to tell their friend that they have a problem, and that the problem is solvable. OP is putting up with any unconformable feelings and bad blood this will cause to do this.

This might be enough for that friend to want to make a change.

OP must know only their friend can choose to stop drinking.

[–] Fades@lemmy.world -4 points 1 year ago

I would say calling it sick is a bit much. Yes, I’m this context it’s fucked up but the ads being served are simply trying to match advertisements to users. Alcohol is quite popular for advertising, alcoholic interventions not so much.

So yeah, you’re gonna get ads about alcohol. If this bothers you, turn off ad targeting wherever possible. You could also install an ad blocker (mind blowing you don’t seem to have one?)

There are solutions if you truly cared

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