I can't be the only one who has been on both sides of this, yeah?
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Hi, I’m from All. Is calling a person on the spectrum “Acoustic” as a light hearted joke ok?
Edit: thanks everyone who responded! Sorry if it’s a dumb question. I used to think that using the word “dude” as a gender neutral term was ok until I got yelled at by internet strangers so now I double check every memey phrase.
"Dude" is more problematic as sounding aggressive, dismissive, or juvenile than gender issues. There is a loophole, though. If you are a man who is willing to say, "I fuck dudes," you can call anyone a dude.
*straight man
There’s enough sexist gay men around as it is.