One of the things that sets Lemmy, and the collective fediverse apart from other platforms is its community. Recently, there's been a large influx of new users (myself included; thus I apologize if this is not the right location for this post). A toxic trait associated with other platforms is the incorrect use of the downvote. Historically, this function was used to hide comments that detracted from the conversation; however, next to no one uses it as intended, and it's primarily used as a I disagree with you button.
I don't think we'll ever change how the downvote is used now - it's current use is too entrenched. Instead, I suggest that rather than just downvoting and moving on with something you disagree with, that users expand on why they disagree with the post or comment. Not only does this generate more content, but it also can take the conversation into new areas and offer new perspectives that the OP had not considered. You might even actually change a mind or two by doing so, thus bringing people around to see your side of the coin. Commenting (with civility) on stuff you don't agree with is beneficial on all fronts. It promotes discussion, and it offers new perspectives. It also minimizes the likelihood of echo chambers forming. That last bit is what I've come to value here the most. Other sites are just massive echo chambers where there's a rote response or opinion. This creates a stale environment for users, and deters people from commenting. Why comment, when you know what the answer will be, or that you'll be jumped on at the first word of disagreement with the entrenched opinion?
But what if I don't have time to comment to support my downvote? Simple - don't downvote unless the item you're downvoting truly detracts from the conversation (as per the functions original intent).
I realize this is a bit of a rant/ramble, but I think by actively putting more effort into our comments and downvotes, we can make lemmy an even richer community than it already is.
Thanks for taking the time to read,
- Shovel
So one thing I've noticed that I like quite a lot about Lemmy is that heavily downvoted comments still seem to show up when they're embedded into a comment chain. I've had conversations here where I am accumulating 5-10 downvotes per comment, and it's fine; everyone can still talk to me, I can still talk to everyone, yes I register your disapproval, but I still get to converse.
That's the thing though. If they downvote and move on, then they aren't adding anything to the conversation. If they downvoted, and then said why, it would spur more discussion. That's all I'm getting at in this post. By talking about differences in opinion with civility in mind, we avoid echo chambers and all the other negative shit that goes with it.
That's what I was appreciating here and on Lemmy-- instead of seeing downvotes, one was seeing replies.
The large influx of users on the 1st don't seem to be aware of the nuanced decorum on the Verse, but hopefully everyone will get on the same page soon :)