Mobiuthuselah

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[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I read something at some point about how our fists seemed to have evolved or at least adapted to be well suited to delivering a punch. Many people do not use proper hand forms for it, but I suppose it's a learned skill if not at least through trial and error.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 3 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I use it too. Tried a few different ones and like boost the best. I finally just paid for the non-ad tier. One time cost of 3.99. I would have been turned off by a subscription.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Funny how folks like the person you responded to think they are the most enlightened individuals and that everyone else just doesn't get it. They act like thinking for themselves is parroting buzzwords they heard on the "news", talk radio, or some private facebook group.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 9 points 2 months ago

Speaks volumes that they didn't have an answer.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I thought the same thing. This doesn't seem frivolous at all. They're not claiming that they're living in constant fear of the sky falling.

And I'm with ya, I'd totally want to keep the debris.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 0 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Hey, hey. This comes from a place of fear and that's okay, but recognize it for what it is. Buying guns in fear is what gets people hurt. If you choose to buy a gun for the first time, take proficiency courses. Learn the legal responsibilities that come with it. If you're genuinely concerned, protect yourself in a responsible way. That may or may not be with a firearm. There are many ways to protect yourself. Take martial arts classes for instance.

This may seem like a wild suggestion, but try therapy. It did wonders for my anxiety. Seriously. I don't worry as much. I don't live in fear. I have friends ALL across the political spectrum. We get along fine. We treat each other with love and respect. The news and media drums up fear and excitement for attention. It's what sells ads.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That there's nothing wrong with their personal choices but there is with the hypocritical grandstanding for the sake of political gain.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 3 points 6 months ago (4 children)

The kids' names are irrelevant and diluting to your otherwise good point.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 10 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Perhaps I'm not understanding the question, but first and foremost, science is specifically not a belief system. My professors emphasized the fact that we were not to believe anything but rather accept or reject hypotheses based on evidence. Science is a tool. It's a system of observing, recording, hypothesizing, testing, analyzing, and refining. If you're asking when we will have refined everything to the point that there are no more questions, I don't think that will ever happen. What I've found is the more questions you answer, the more questions you have.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 8 points 6 months ago (2 children)
[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 9 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

I haven't read through comments yet so I may be redundant.

Hey... So sorry. Pets are a personal relationship. That loss is a grief just like any other. It's hard because others don't have the relationship to that individual that you have.

Grief is something you carry through life. It isn't linear, but it does get easier. Grief will come in waves. You'll be fine and then it hits you out of the blue.

Do we just live and suffer and die? Well, yeah. But we also love, and get excited, and feel, learn new things, explore. We fall in love; we experienced heartbreak. We have moments when we notice the light coming through the leaves in the forest, or the sound of water on rocks in a creek, an interaction between a grandparent and young child, the smell of a newborn's head, that first time a cat settles in your lap, coffee when no one else is awake, the first sign of success in a new hobby, I could go on and on. So many things. Observations that have a visceral yet intangible emotional reaction. So so many things.

Let grief make you tender. Let grief remind you that everyone will deal with it in different ways. You can connect to others through vulnerability. Don't let it make you hard or resentful; there's so much beauty and love in the world. There's so much love in the personal relationship with a pet. There is love you can't describe.

Engage with the grief. Don't bottle or avoid it. Feel it. You're grieving because of the depth and complexity of the relationship. That's totally okay. That's healthy. It's gonna hurt. It hurts.

I'm so sorry you're feeling this right now. Take your time and feel it. Don't feel like you ever have to let that go. That's life.

Live, suffer, and die? Yeah, you could say that, but it's in the most beautiful way, and there's so much in between.

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