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[–] seliaste@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

What do you mean parents gets involved? Aren't they 18 by the time of their internship?

[–] bbbhltz@beehaw.org 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

This shocked me as well because my parents weren't involved with my work or education after finishing high school.

In France, this is not the case. The majority of people are supported by their parents until the end of secondary education, especially when it comes to my students who are all in private institutions.

It is extremely rare for a student to have a job, for example.

Parents do get involved for even minor things, and will come stomping into the school flanked by a lawyer.

Why would they be involved?

Because they pay. That's all.

Now, university is practically free and lots of students get a bursary (not a loan) to help them along. But, their parents will still pay rent sometimes because a full-time student with a job is seen as the most amazing thing here.

I will often bring up this stark contrast to how when I was a student I had 4 different jobs and still ended my studies 60k in debt and didn't even see my parents during the school year, let alone get any money from them.

[–] seliaste@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I am french too and while my parents do pay for my studies they are never directly involved. Maybe it's a school difference but I find this so weird, because I am in a public faculté
If I remember correctly, my teachers were saying that they were legally restricted from sharing informations to student's parents emailing them.

[–] bbbhltz@beehaw.org 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Probably a private school thing in that case. I haven't taught at a public uni since 2008, but parents wouldn't have tried to get involved back then.

I cannot contact parents, but administrators will without question.

[–] seliaste@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 10 months ago

Damn, what a weird thing. Glad to be in the public then