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Its status on federation with problematic instances.

I chose Aussie.zone cause I'm out of touch with my own country so seeing the news here is nice and cause I thought it would be easier to join a country instance.

Also optional email and I know I could make a temp email but I can't be bothered.

[–] loopy@vlemmy.net 4 points 1 year ago

I found beehaw first, so I started there but then discovered that the admins manage the community creation there. So I made a new account on lemmy.world to mod that, and most browsed with my beehaw account. But then beehaw needed to de-federate from lemmy.world, so I made a vLemmy and lemmy.one accounts so I could interact with both beehaw and lemmy.world.

tl;dr As someone else mentioned, finding a smaller, low-profile instance to have your home account but interacting with other instances seems to be the best approach

[–] tzutoo@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

It doesn't really matter actually, but I would prefer to stay on the one with more members as it will probably last longer than other instances

[–] TheSacredOne@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Tried lemmy.world as a reddit refugee but with the performance issues they're experiencing, quickly went looking for another instance with better performance and a decent amount of extra content. Lemmy.ml is blocked at work (.ml TLD is freenom so prone to abuse) and registration is closed anyway, so decided on lemm.ee.

Far better speed, a good amount of content locally, and few/no errors at the moment.

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[–] ZTabs@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

I'm with the boys on lemm.ee !

[–] MrFunnyMoustache@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I googled Lemmy and signed up to the first result, not knowing what instances were back then.

[–] Purr@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I chose Lemmy.world, because it was the one I was hearing the most about. It's a bit slow at the moment, but that's not surprising, given the amount of new users. So far it's been fun. I really hope more and more people show up!

[–] hsl@wayfarershaven.eu 4 points 1 year ago

When I got started on Lemmy, there were only a handful of instances and they were all general-purpose. I went and made my own so that it was exactly what I wanted.

These days, I'd probably use a list like this and choose an instance that isn't too big with a cool domain name: https://github.com/maltfield/awesome-lemmy-instances

[–] lemmy@lemmy.quad442.com 3 points 1 year ago

.... Because I own it

I decided I felt better selfhosting it rather than being on anyone else's instance

[–] Firipu@startrek.website 3 points 1 year ago

Made one on lemmy.world but it's crumbling under the pressure as we speak. Tried a local one, but it has like 5 users. Don't trust it to live long enough. So started using the star trek one, because star trek. Not as if you'd need any other reason

[–] zerbey@infosec.pub 3 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Bouncing between several since lemmy.world is being hammered right now, I'm sure once the dust settles things will calm down. Right now I'm on infosec.pub because it was recommended to me as a smaller server. It really doesn't matter so long as whatever you're on communicates with everyone else.

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[–] Flashback956@feddit.nl 3 points 1 year ago

Country, I live in The Netherlands so I searched for a Dutch hosted instance with Dutch owner.

[–] Ranessin@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago

Biggest German server and good community.

[–] myersguy@lemmy.simpl.website 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Surprised I'm not seeing any other self-hosters in here. Having seen the de-federation drama, it's nice to know that I can federate with anyone I want, regardless of if they are federating with eachother.

Obviously it comes with the administration side of things, but I really don't mind.

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[–] Mavedustaine@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Like most commenters here, because it was recommended and I'm a newbie at this.

Question though, if I create another account on say lemm.ee, is there a way for me to migrate my subscribed communities?

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[–] Elkaki123@vlemmy.net 3 points 1 year ago

The one I use doesn't block other instances, although I probably will block the same instances and people that big instances already block, I want to be the one to make that choice and shape the content I see.

[–] ratboy@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I signed up with beehaw first, but realized that they were defederated from lemmygrad, which I wanted access to. As I became more acquainted with lemmy and started looking into the "flavors" of the different instances, I joined lemmy.ml because they are unapologetic communists and won't defederate with lemmygrad.

As an aside, it's fucking insane to me that lemmygrad is so controversial yet there's crickets about exploding-heads and people are happy to be on instances that don't block them. Cool

Everywhere I've seen has been defederating from exploding-heads.

[–] Menagerie@pawb.social 3 points 1 year ago

I picked pawb because furries know tech really well, so I can trust the server to be fairly reliable.

[–] ilovetvshows@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Google search. I had no clue about multiple instances. Search lemmy on Google and first link was for lemmy.ml domain so that's how I am here.

[–] writerlygal@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I chose lemm.ee because it came highly recommended and rightfully so. Great management and great communities too

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[–] Hox@vlemmy.net 3 points 1 year ago

I chose vlemmy.net cause it seemed neutral, general, and was one of the recommended ones. So far so good.

[–] TheCatfish@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

β€’Lemmy.ml - Signed up here first, was recommended to it as a general place to sign up to

β€’Lemmy.blahaj.zone - Egg memes, blΓ₯haj memes, just memes

β€’Lemmy.world - Handy for extra world news communities

β€’Lemmynsfw.com - Do I need to explain. This is under a different name, but I've kinda used that name over on the other place and I'm slowly bringing my content over (plus new stuff)

I only use one and four regularly

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[–] Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Trans, pan, 196, and Blahaj is friend.

[–] SgtSilverLining@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[–] russjr08@outpost.zeuslink.net 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Well, I started my instance so it only makes sense that its also my home!

As for why I started an instance, I've always liked self-hosting stuff as its been one of the best ways I learn how stuff on the internet works, even more than I have learnt from doing some programming in my spare time. So it was an obvious move for me since I wanted to know more about how ActivityPub worked.

Originally I wasn't really planning on having open registration on my instance (otherwise I would've picked a better domain name, a bit late for that now) however as I saw Lemmy pick up pace, and the larger servers were starting to have issues, I figured that the best way I could give back was at least offer to share the load.

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[–] lodion@aussie.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wanted an instance specifically for Australians... so I made one πŸ˜€

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[–] digdilem@feddit.uk 3 points 1 year ago

Feddit.uk - I figure regionality has benefit in keeping loads more spread, plus it hosts some good communities and a cute name.

[–] Armetron@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

So I joined lemmy.world because I use to be a user of reddit is fun, rip, and in their going away message they mentioned .world. So I joined that instance not realizing how the fediverse works.

Overall what I've seen is the instance you join determines your "front page" since by default it will be set to show local communities. Other than that subscribe to any community from any instance then set your front page to show "subscribed" or "all" and you get your basic Reddit experience

[–] blazarious@mylem.me 3 points 1 year ago

Set up the server myself. For me, that’s part of the fediverse experience.

[–] OsakaWilson@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

The first I tried was Lemmy.ml. I applied and didn't hear back. So I joined Lemmy.world and registered immediately.

[–] zimbobaduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

When the ship of r/piracy sailed from the reddit docks, this is where we landed.

[–] LeHappStick@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

It has the word world in the name, sounds bigger.

[–] voidf1sh@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've got accounts on 4 different instances just to see what things are like. Sometimes I want to see all sorts of posts, sometimes I want a feed of just LGBT-positive stuff, sometimes I just want to get off, different accounts on different instances for different things :)

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[–] Seraphin@pawb.social 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Because I'm a furry. obligatory OwO

A friend owns it and it has a funny domain. Bonus of it being smaller is that it didn't have any performance issues yesterday/today.

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