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[–] MobileSuitBagera@lemmy.fmhy.ml 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Remember kids, they also get to use the money they guilted off of you to reduce their tax liability because they get credit for donating your money!

[–] mighty_alfredo@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They do not, at least in the US.

[–] axtualdave@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

It depends on exactly what the store is doing.

If the store is representing the extra charge as a donation to a specific charity, generally, the customer can deduct that.

If it's far more vague, like, "Give $10 to help poor kids in Africa" the ultimate destination for the funds could be the company's own ledgers, which it would then use for its own charitable activities and collect the tax deduction, as long as they "help poor kids in Africa."

And some stores are just lying. CVS, for instance, was sued as part of a class action suit when, after the company pledges $10 million to the American Diabetes Association, then collected money from customers to fund that pledge.

[–] MegaUltraChicken@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My favorite one is when our utility company asks me to donate to help pay for people's utilities like they aren't raking in record amount of cash.

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[–] fsk@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Those charities have huge overhead. Very little money goes to the actual cause.

[–] someguy3@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

There are sites to check how much actually goes out. Check before you donate.

[–] FreeDiverX@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago

First, please don't link to Reddit...

Many Of The Largest Charities In America Are Giant Money Making Scams
http://thetruthwins.com/archives/many-of-the-largest-charities-in-america-are-giant-money-making-scams

[–] Licensed_to_ill@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Those donations you make can help them deduct from taxes, right?

[–] neanderthal@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Here me out before accusing me of being a billionaire toady.

Not really, at least not in the US. Charitable contributions are a deduction from taxable income, not a credit, so it is still a net financial loss to donate.

Where the benefit comes is the PR and power over the organization they donate to and its sphere of influence.

[–] git@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It is a net loss if you donate your own money, in this situation Company isn't donating from its own revenue. It is donating customers money.

If I donated 1000$ and claimed tax deductible it would be a net loss. But if I asked everyone for donations, raised 1000$, donated that and claimed tax deductible that wouldn't be a net loss.

[–] Janus67@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think that's a myth as it isn't income it goes into a separate fund to transfer 1:1.

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[–] HRDS_654@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yes, which is why you should donate yourself if you are inclined to do so.

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[–] AltF4me@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] drmugg@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago

And redirecting you attention on to the "offsets" scam too.

Ever wonder why climate change is such a problem if 1.5 pence per liter petroleum burnt can undo the damage? Spoiler: it can't. You can't sequester CO² for that cheap, and CO² isn't the only issue. "Offsets" are not certified by any trustworthy third party, and companies intentionally don't pry too much, so they can say "Oh sorry, didn't know" if anyone investigates and discovers they did squat-all.

[–] Spacecraft@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I hate when they pull this shit at drive through fast food. “Would you like to round up to donate to our charity?”

Who knows what the person taking my order thinks about this charity, and what they might do to someone’s food who says no.

Edit: The fact that merely implying a fast food worker wouldn’t be a complete perfect human being gets so many downvotes says a whole lot about this community.

[–] sirkook@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I can assure you that nobody working at the fast food restaurant gives a shit if you donate to charity.

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[–] norapink@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I hate these donate screens because I have no idea where the donation actually goes and i don't want to have to do a ton of research at the grocery checkout about whether its a good charity.

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[–] zombuey@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Just FYI this is a sort of scam. ~~The company donates the money on your behalf and they get the tax write-off for your donation while also appearing philanthropic for PR purposes~~. that's why they do it.

EDIT: US companies cannot do this in the US you can claim up to $300 on taxes. This is legit in the US.

[–] Sendbeer@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@zombuey I've heard that a lot, but it is apparently not true unless the company claims your donation as a profit and then writes it off, which negates any tax benefit. I think it's more just a PR thing to make you feel good about that company while using your own money.

[–] iAmTheTot@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

They cannot claim it as profit if they are following the law.

[–] iAmTheTot@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

They cannot, and do not, claim your donations on their taxes.

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[–] this@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Or just...donate the perfectly good food they constantly throw out into the cadged dumpsters designed to keep homeless people out... Litteraly would cost them nothing...

[–] darkknight@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I hate when any company I'm buying something from does this.

[–] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And I will never ever give these fools my actual phone number for discounts. Just use any area code w/ 867-5309 to get around this.

[–] jackoneill@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Jenny Jenny, who can I turn to? You give me something I can hold on to. I know you think I’m like the others before who saw your name and number on the wall

[–] Skellybones@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I just say no

[–] TheDeadGuy@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Bad example, grocery stores usually have small margins and aren't making a lot of money off of you

[–] Izzgo@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

This is actually true. But those small margins add up to a huge profit overall. Still, they probably could not afford to donate $20 per shopper.

[–] iliketurtles@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's so they can get a tax write off for your donation.

[–] iAmTheTot@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

This is a lie that I had hoped to leave behind on Reddit but lo and behold it's so pervasive that it transcends social circles.

Repeat after me: that is not how taxes work.

They do not get any monetary benefit from your donations, save for arguably good publicity. They do not claim your donations in their taxes. They do not get extra write offs on their taxes.

Those donations are yours and you could claim them on your taxes, if you were so inclined.

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[–] Colt420@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How bout the fact if they achieved their goals, they wouldn't have a problem to have a charity for and thats a bigger concern to them. They'd rather not help people than not exist. They may as well just pretend they are the poor people their campaigning for. Or be technically homeless and donate to themselves while living in charity(company) owned residence

[–] cloverthecutie@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Nah the charities are usually legit. But the companies aren't doing it out of the goodness of their heart, it's a massive tax write off as well as free PR.

[–] danielton@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just wait until you get a tip prompt on a self checkout kiosk...

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To be fair, I bet these companies strike deals with the charitable organizations to in turn raise visibility of those charities among the company's customers.

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