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I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

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[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 17 points 10 months ago

I think there are more bummer world events happening like the Israel Hamas war and bummer late stage capitalism in general which leads to more inflammatory and charged discourse, compared to just after the Reddit exodus when we were united against Reddit.

Lemmy in general isn’t different from other social media in that it isn’t great for political discourse. Without the human connection there is less incentive to consider the experience and viewpoints of others when you can just downvote and read a hundred that agree with you

[–] SorteKanin@feddit.dk 17 points 10 months ago

I honestly don't feel much has changed. There was perhaps a bit of a "new" feeling in the start and some excitement about the project, but I don't think people have gotten more aggressive or anything.

But I think all this probably depends what circles you hang out in. Probably also depends on what instances you federate with.

[–] MonsieurArchi@lemmy.world 17 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Yes! I've been seeing a lot of toxic comments and posts lately. It's kinda turning into a niche hyper toxic reddit.

[–] pan_troglodytes@programming.dev 11 points 10 months ago (1 children)

many, if not most of the popular/highly-trafficked communities are basically echo chambers now, anyone who disagrees with whatever the cookie-cutter general consensus of the day is becomes a hate magnet.

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[–] Katrisia@lemm.ee 16 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I haven't noticed, but some people say they are feeling political tensions, and...

The year 2024 is notable for the large number of elections, with 7 of world's 10 most populous nations (Bangladesh, India, United States, Indonesia, Pakistan, Russia, Mexico) voting; countries that are home to nearly half of the world's people will hold elections in 2024.

From the Wikipedia complete list.

I guess everyone is just a little worried about national and international elections.

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[–] CultHero@lemmy.world 16 points 10 months ago (16 children)

I just started a few days ago and already had to deal with a transphobic troll. Online is so toxic that I'm afraid eventually all social media platforms end up on trolls radar and they seek to destroy them. It's a shame because they ruin social media for everyone including themselves.

So many people lack a basic sense decency that they actually think it's ok to cause harm to other people simply for their own amusement. It's usually straight white american males too.

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[–] MonsiuerPatEBrown@reddthat.com 16 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (3 children)

I apologize if these include me.

As we in the US loom towards the election I am getting more and more raw and worried about it. And with that my fear brings out screechy obscene me. That is one of my fear responses that I lose the handle on a lot.

So please forgive me. I will try to avoid political threads as we ramp up to either the end of American democracy or the continuing gerontocratic oligarchic republic.

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[–] CitizenKong@lemmy.world 15 points 10 months ago (3 children)

A lot of people are having a hard time right now. Try to be the change you want to see and react kindly and rationally would be my advice.

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[–] Mango@lemmy.world 15 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I FART IN YOUR GENERAL DIRECTION!

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[–] dandroid@dandroid.app 15 points 10 months ago (9 children)

I feel like a very high percentage of posts and comments here are just "Americans bad." And as an American, even though the things they are complaining about don't apply to me specifically, it makes me feel very unwelcome.

[–] Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I feel like that’s kind of the case for a lot of things here. God forbid you find anything remotely positive about the wrong brand of phone, operating system or web browser. You’re unwelcome.

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[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 14 points 10 months ago (1 children)

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor.

Careful. I'll correct my neighbour's spelling, too . :-)

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[–] Yerbouti@lemmy.ml 14 points 10 months ago (21 children)

Comming from Reddit, I find it really peaceful, but IDK how it was before. Except for the people at Hexbear who bullied me for liking South Park. The socalled "dirtbag left" is basically the proudboys pretending to be far-left.

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[–] moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 10 months ago (1 children)

It's definitely gotten worse, especially the political circlejerk, jeez.

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[–] Balinares@pawb.social 13 points 10 months ago (5 children)

Yeah, definitely the vibe has changed. It's kind of sad.

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[–] 1984@lemmy.today 12 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Vibe has changed but it's because of more users. The original users picked Lemmy because they were tired of reddit, so they were naturally nice people that didn't vibe with the shit that was going on at reddit. They wanted something else. We wanted something else.

That's why we shouldn't wish for exponential growth. This place will lose its charm quickly if we end up arguing with the trolls.

[–] fidodo@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago (1 children)

100%. Seems like people are just itching to fight now and taking comments out of context constantly. They're just throwing out insults instead of engaging or asking for clarification. Dunno what happened.

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[–] Facebones@reddthat.com 10 points 10 months ago

I don't mind disagreeing and even bickering a bit, but when somebody gets extra or pointedly disengenuous I just block em. IDGAF. 🀷

[–] Resol@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago

Idk why, but I feel like I'm starting to associate this kind of behavior with people who used to be on Reddit and moved over here when all the third party apps got Thanos snapped.

I first got here around July 2023, and it was pretty cool. Nowadays it's probably a little less cool.

[–] Buelldozer@lemmy.today 10 points 10 months ago (5 children)

You mean comments like this one?

https://feddit.nl/comment/6215624

Yeah, it's getting worse.

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[–] S_204@lemm.ee 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The same assholes who were on Reddit being pieces of shit are here too.

It's the internet, everything is reduced to being shitty within weeks of getting noticed.

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[–] simple@lemm.ee 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Just lots of trolls lately, most communities are fine but some have poor moderation so these types of comments/posts take some time to get deleted. All the communities I'm browsing are quite chill.

[–] Drewfro66@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I think it's just a growing pain of the contradictions of Federation resolving themselves, mostly in the political sphere.

You have left-wing instances (lemmygrad.ml), center-right instances (lemmy.world), and right-wing instances (sh.itjust.works). Even if different instances defederate with each other, there will always be overlap instances (lemmy.ml being the biggest, but also lemm.ee, startrek.website, mander.xyz, programming.dev, etc.). And while individual users can block specific instances, this doesn't prevent them from seeing and responding to their posts. Communists and Liberals and Libertarians, who each believe the others are literally as bad as the Nazis (and I'm not making a value judgement here - maybe some of them are right), are forced to interact with each other on occasionally political topics.

The hard right, unlike in Reddit, isn't really a figure here - and moderators on Lemmy don't know how to handle political disagreements where both sides are within the sphere of acceptable discourse.

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[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Anecdotally, I’ve seen more spam lately too.

Btw, what are we calling aggressive chat bots? Auto-trolls? Strife bots? Contentionator-3000s?

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