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Nowadays I find a lot of games feel like too much work and/or anxiety when I just want to relax for like, 30 minutes to an hour after a long day. On the other hand, the games specifically designed to help you unwind just feel boring imo.

In the past I've felt like Outer Wilds scratched this itch, cause the whole experience was engaging but generally relaxed. There was a mystery that kept me hooked and the exploration and movement was fun in and of itself. I also felt like Subnautica filled this role since it was very much at my own pace, with anxiety producing portions which could for the most part be avoided or minimized, and also there was a clear objective to fulfill, get off the planet.

So what games do you play when you just wanna relax?

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[–] chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Chrono Trigger. I have a save that I just load up, do some things on, and then turn off when I'm done. I've beaten the game dozens of times, and I know every aspect in and out, so it's like flipping on the TV and catching an episode of a sitcom, I just roll with it and mellow out.

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[–] CalamityBalls@kbin.social 6 points 1 year ago

It might be more catharsis than unwinding, but dark souls/sekiro. I've been through them enough times that it's just comfortable.

[–] Rookeh@startrek.website 6 points 1 year ago

BeamNG. Logged hundreds of hours just mindlessly driving around crashing into stuff and fucking around with vehicle customisations.

[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 6 points 1 year ago

Rocket League. And then I'm not chilled.

[–] SuperSpruce@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Forza Horizon 5. I like to just drive around the map for a while, and maybe do a race or two, until I inevitably get bored after an hour or so. Repeat every week.

(until I bought a real life motorcycle to scratch that itch, and no, I'm not racing or being dangerous on my motorcycle)

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[–] pomodoro_longbreak@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Minecraft, Doom (first two), Cities Skylines, and more recently, Unpacking.

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[–] dansity@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I play Trackmania at least once a day. The community is so nice and friendly and the racing at high speed is so calming for me.

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[–] BeautifulMind@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

It's my bike, I ride my bike. Indoors, I've got Zwift, which looks a bit like a game.

But outdoors the resolution is better but the NPCs can be belligerent.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I play high intensity first person shooters, mostly Battlefield, to unwind.

The faster paced the better because it allows me to escape.

It used to be I’d get so worked up over competitive games. I had to be doing PvE to relax. Not so any more.

Weirdly, this happened after I had a completely horrible medical experience that left me with permanent (figurative) scars on my nervous system. Like, I still have stress problems four years after the event.

But at that moment, suddenly competitive games became refreshing to me.

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[–] offspec@lemmy.nicknakin.com 5 points 1 year ago

Potion craft is great for this, just running a little potion shop making potions to order.

[–] 257m@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Blast some bots in Quake 3.

I've been enjoying unreal tournament, too

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[–] penquin@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Genshin impact on PC is a masterpiece. The colors on my 4k monitor are just out of this world. I don't even do hard missions, I just go around the wild collect foods and stuff. So relaxing.

[–] TheMinions@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What would you define as a hard mission?

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[–] Rootiest@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Terraria

Celeste

Dwarf Fortress

[–] Macaroni_ninja@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Terraria. I started a new character/world probably 200 times. Music is also bang on.

[–] x2XS2L0U@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Bishma@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Oxygen Not Included. - !oxygennotincluded@lemmy.world

Just started a new colony yesterday because an update was released with new tools and content. The colony I was playing up until that point was almost 3000 cycles old.

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[–] meekah@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I really liked playing Talos Principle 2 the past days. makes you think not just about logic but also some aspects of philosophy. which, at least to me, is pretty relaxing.

[–] ModernRisk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

Persona 5 Royal.

I love the social element, characters and such.

[–] FontMasterFlex@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

I'm really in the same boat. Lately it's been these:

Dorfromantik

Mini Motorways

Halls of Torment

Vampire Survivors

Brotato

Firewatch was great but it's really a one or two sitting game. Same with Unpacking.

What I'm REALLY looking for but having trouble finding is something like a city builder or house builder that there is no money, nothing like that. Just creativity in building. Way back when I first tried the Sims, I loved the house building part more than anything.

I've been searching for something new though. I tried Satisfactory but really just wish it had a creative mode. I tried Terraria but I can't get the Minecraft allegory out of my head so this game infuriates me.

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[–] NENathaniel@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

I find most games can be relaxing if Ive already played them a lot, even comp shooters. Quake Champions is relaxing for me at this point

[–] fne8w2ah@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago
[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Splatoon. Don't ask why, I don't know. My gf calls it "yelling at 12 year olds"

But seriously it's like watching your own team score against you in soccer ;___;

[–] randombullet@feddit.de 4 points 1 year ago

Since everyone has already said more well known games, here are my Indie/small games

Islanders

Race the Sun

Skye

Superflight

[–] TheGiantKorean@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Shattered Pixel Dungeon. Which is weird because it's actually quite frustrating, but super rewarding if you win.

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[–] Outsider9042@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

DOTA2 turbo mode, done in 20-30 minutes, and the try bards that take the mode serious are hilarious

I think I understand what you mean lol.

Lately for me it's been: Mass Effect legendary edition, Mount & Blade 2, Crusader Kings 3, Dishonored 1 and 2, and Hitman 3.

[–] SVcross@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)
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[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Minecraft. Sky Factory 3 - a void world modpack. Nothing exists without my having created it. I can allow mobs to spawn on my platform or not, depending on how I feel.

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