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[–] qooqie@lemmy.world 135 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (16 children)

Caffeine, people think they aren’t addicted to caffeine and can stop any time but watch them be miserable and go right back when they try. And in the same vein adderall for those college kids who are cramming before tests

[–] Mathazzar@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If I go 2 days without coffee, my head starts to kill me. Definitely an addiction.

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[–] LazaroFilm@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

I have adhd. Caffeine I definitely feel the symptoms when I stop. My adhd drug (Focalin, not aderall) I just feel the ADHD symptoms more but no headaches and such.

[–] PeleSpirit@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (10 children)

It actually makes you feel like you have the flu for about 3 days to a week.

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[–] MrSilkworm@lemmy.world 100 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Algorithmic Addiction from Social Media consumption. An analogy would be Caffeine addiction from coffee consumption.

Most people who use smartphones are addicts and are far from being aware of it.

[–] stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 44 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I only browse lemmy 6 hours a day, there's no way I'm addicted!

[–] irdc@derp.foo 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I can stop whenever I want!

[–] stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I will show you, I will close the app right know!

edit: I'm back. See? I told you I could do it.

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[–] calabast@lemm.ee 90 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Che_Donkey@lemmy.ml 42 points 1 year ago

How DARE you!

[–] Izzy@lemmy.world 74 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Internet and screens in general.

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[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 69 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I’m surprised not to see “Weed” here.

I don’t smoke anymore, cuz awesome anxiety. But I was hella addicted when I was younger. I’ve got a few friends who HAVE to smoke every day, or when they go out, or when they play video games, or when they wake up…

It’s not physically addictive, but damn can it ever be mentally.

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[–] kratoz29@lemm.ee 63 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Lemmy, my friends says this is a cult.

[–] ExtraMedicated@lemmy.world 85 points 1 year ago (3 children)

We are your friends now. You don't need them anymore.

[–] kratoz29@lemm.ee 33 points 1 year ago

How wholesome ♥️

[–] lord_ryvan@ttrpg.network 20 points 1 year ago

kratoz29 is our friend now ☭

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[–] beefbaby182@lemmy.thesanewriter.com 56 points 1 year ago (5 children)

With so many states (US) legalizing weed, people are quickly forgetting that yes, pot is a drug and yes, it is addivitve.

[–] coffee_poops@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 year ago

Nice try, McGruff.

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[–] DankMemeMachine@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Social media, here we all are lmaoooo

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[–] fxt_ryknow@lemmy.world 45 points 1 year ago

Social media consumption as a whole.

[–] DLSchichtl@lemmy.world 43 points 1 year ago (5 children)

An interesting book can put me in a similar situations to drug addiction. My wife had to put her foot down on my reading issues, and now I avoid books unless necessary. People are always confused when I explain it to them.

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[–] littlecolt@lemm.ee 40 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Fast food.

The amount of fast food people eat in America is not normal.

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[–] sharkfucker420@sh.itjust.works 34 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] SIGSEGV@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Codependency. It's okay to not be in a relationship.

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[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 33 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Music.

Some people won't drive without it. Or can't study, etc.

Obviously not a harmful addiction, or even undesirable in most cases - but generally unacknowledged.

I like most music, but it doesn't occur to me to go out of my way to play it for myself.

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[–] phant@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago

Following sports. Being a die hard sports fan is time consuming and stressful. Obviously betting on sports is an addiction people talk about now, but even tipping comps and fantasy football type leagues are things that rob you of time and energy.

[–] Jackolantern@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Phone and to some extent, gadgets in general.

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[–] RanchOnPancakes@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Air. You don't actually need it.

[–] HootinNHollerin@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It’s all big air propaganda

[–] masterofn001@lemmy.ca 22 points 1 year ago

Consumerism.

Tabloid / reality tv drama.

Porn.

[–] yuki2501@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

youtube shorts. A friend described them as a "time vampire".

[–] dingus@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

People watch YouTube Shorts?

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[–] TrustingZebra@lemmy.one 14 points 1 year ago (4 children)

So many people boast about not using TikTok. Then waste comparable amounts of time on YouTube/FB/Instagram Shorts.

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[–] Cyyy@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] A_A@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Masturbation

(...) is frequent in both sexes and at any age. Various medical and psychological benefits have been attributed to a healthy attitude toward sexual activity in general and to masturbation in particular.
(...) Masturbation in non-human animals has been observed both in the wild and in captivity.

[–] naught@sh.itjust.works 32 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Shame around masturbation is cringe 👌

[–] sanpedropeddler@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Its also cringe to ignore the fact that it can be a problem. I'm not saying that's what you're doing, but I see it a lot and neither extreme is good.

[–] A_A@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

Risks
Compulsive masturbation and other compulsive behaviors can be signs of an emotional problem, which may need to be addressed by a mental health specialist. As with any "nervous habit", it is more helpful to consider the causes of compulsive behavior, rather than try to repress masturbation.

See also
Persistent genital arousal disorder

Today I learned a lot reading Wikipedia

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[–] garchai@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

Asking for help/favors. Also using white lies as easy answers for certain questions instead of explaining the truth.

[–] jinarched@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Carbohydrates. We love em carbs.

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[–] BigBen103@lemm.ee 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Breathing. People do it all the time and most people will die if they don't breathe.

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[–] Specific_Skunk@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Food. Jfc does America love food. Celebration? Throw a bbq. Mourning? Better bring a casserole. Meeting? Where’s the donuts? Wealth is synonymous with healthy food: fresh fruit, smoothies, and whatever hot new protein food strikes your fancy. What do you eat? How do you carry it? How do you drink it? How do you mix it? How do you cook it? It’s fucking absurd.

[–] quicksand@lemm.ee 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think nearly every culture uses food in this way. I know India and Indonesia do

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[–] Jjcool27@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

Reddit addiction.

[–] TheV2@programming.dev 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] lemmyseikai@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Gingerlegs@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

Salt. I am one

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