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What's a current or growing trend only you seem to have concerns about? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by HouseWolf@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I've definitely turned into the paranoid nutcase within my friend group in recent years, I hate that everything is "smart" nowadays requiring an app/internet connection & account, just to do basic things that didn't require any of that before.

What's some things currently making you ramble like an old man?

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[–] Gnubyte@lemdit.com -5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I think it's especially the money and LGBTQ+ and non sexual norms that are driving people to the right. I notice when I talk to a lot of younger guys theyre tired of hearing about it.

Because it's pushed on so much of their TV shows and things they like that they side with political candidates that are conservative at a young age and they further grow into it. These are conservative candidates with lots of money usually.

I hate to say it but it was universally cool to defend LGBT people when the media and TV shows didn't push it. Because you were defending an oppressed person. Now it more so feels like it's popular which means it's no longer an obscure thing, the anti culture is the new trend.

I want to disclaim that I don't agree with any of this other than to say this is my observation of the behavior. I play rainbow six ranked on Xbox and use the looking for group party finder with a buddy of mine. We group up and encounter a lot of guys in the army and Marines, a lot of teenagers and this is cumulatively the culture I've heard. Same thing on like world of warcraft classic and using discord to raid but those guys run older typically.

[–] KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago

when the media and TV shows didn't push it

This infuriates me more than I can express. How is the existence of lgbt people in media "pushing it"? I that case, I'm sick of the "straights" who have been "pushing it" since I was born.

A few months ago someone I considered a friend came to me and was like, I know you're trans, but what's your opinion on all the trans stuff in the media, I don't want my kid exposed to it. Like, wow, the only reason you know I'm trans is because I told you and now my existence has become political, something her kids need to be shielded from. Fuck all these people to hell and back.

You wanna know how that kind of shit makes you feel? This is what I wrote in a comment yesterday:

You know what's fucked? Being told every day, wherever you look that you shouldn't exist, that you're disgusting and gross, that you deserve to die, that you're unwanted and don't belong. Online, in the news, on TV, from family, people you considered friends, people you tell when you'd like to date. People like this are part of the reason that the end of a rope gets more enticing by the day. You can only take so much constant abuse and hatred. So I guess they're winning, they should be proud of themselves because they're achieving their goals, with some luck I won't exist anymore.

[–] SnowdenHeroOfOurTime@unilem.org 3 points 1 year ago

Playing the victim is the right wingers favorite pastime. Crying that someone's right to exist is a burden for you to hear about. Fuck on off back to 4chan or whatever